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I am a professional I've always needed to feel like I have made a positive difference in the world.
I have always been the one in control, the dominant. Recently, I have had a growing desire and need to give it up, let her take control, structure me and to accept her discipline when she thinks I need it. I want her to decide what movie or restaurant to go to. I want her to even control how I dress. I have a very high sexual drive. Although, I have been in control, it has always been more about pleasing her than the other way around. I am very orally fixated, and obsessed with her pleasure , mine has been quite secondary. A good part of the time I don't even need to orgasm, as long as she does to her heart's content. I do need it sometimes.

I want to be owned. I want to be used. I do not want it to be about me, where it revolves around my submissive needs. I want our dynamic to focus on her desires and needs. I do not like pain, but if she desires to inflict it, up to a point. it would be an incident of her ownership, part of the rights and power I have given her. It would be another way for me to give her pleasure.

She would not need to have a lot of formal education, but she would have to be smart ... clever, for it to work. I no longer want the responsibility of the one to be pleased. I want the simple pleasure of being told how to please her, and just doing it. Does this make sense? I feel foolish writing this. Yet it expresses what I need in my life. I don't want to play or scene. I need intimacy, a real connection.I want to learn what I am supposed to do, and then just do it.

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subninjalette
 
 Age: 29
 Montrose, Minnesota