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	For those who need to know up front. I am looking for a LTR with a submissive woman who is willing to relocate to the United Kingdom for the short to mid-term. I am a high income earner, so visiting you in the US and then arranging your relocation to the UK is not an issue for me, should we click. I am serious and I am genuine, so I would appreciate the same consideration by return. If this proposition sounds interesting then I would be interested to hear from you. One point I wish to make right now. Do not rule yourself out because you do not have the belief that this is real, or that you could be the lucky one. If you have children they can be accommodated and accepted within my household. Do not exclude yourself because you believe you do not fit my ideals. Please, allow me the courtesy of making that decision for myself. I rarely make first contact. If my profile interests you, please feel free to make an approach. About Me I am an erudite, intelligent, public school educated, focused and determined individual, a thoroughly modern gentleman of the old school, although I don’t consider myself old at the grand age of 49. I am a man of independent means and equally well employed working for an international company in the centre of London, United Kingdom. I live approximately 60 miles outside of London, within two minutes walk of the sea. I know what I want and I never fail to reach those goals I set myself. I have climbed to the top of my profession through hard work and personal sacrifice. I have in the past qualified as a skydiver and also as a senior PADI Scuba Diving Instructor. I am a man who could best be described as driven. Driven to succeed, never accepting failure, never staying down in a fight, never giving up. I am a Leo man and I roar in the face of life and I fully expect life to roar right back. I am an individual of high intelligence with an IQ (last tested) of 157. I can be very sharp in thought and this can lead me on occasion to be very sharp in speech. I have expectations of those around me, and in view of my own successes and achievements, have determination that these expectations will be met. I am INTJ on the Myers – Briggs Test. If you don’t know what that is, please take the time to google it. Yes, that means I am an introvert, but if you don’t understand this type of personality please go and do some research. Not all introverts sit frightened in a corner. It means I enjoy solitude and a few good friends, to living as an overtly extravagant persona, being at the centre of all that is happening. If you want to fully understand the 'who I am', this is about as good a profile of me as I have found on the web: Please take the time to read it. https://www.personalitypage.com/INTJ.html What is BDSM to me? The interplay of a true D/s relationship fascinates me. The ability to control with look and word so much more intense than that achieved through fear. To see the desire to serve in the eyes of a submissive, so intoxicating. To recognise the need in me to lead another soul to safety, so great. This lifestyle for me is not about humiliation and abuse, it is about control and true submission. It is about leading a household and having another follow my lead. It is about teaching and it is about learning. It is about taking responsibility for another soul and receiving their gratitude and submission by return. I have the need to train and establish a connection where each of us understands the needs of the other. Domestic discipline for me, is part of the natural order and necessary for this relationship to work. Pain for pleasure is equally intuitive and a necessary part of my being. But never pain to excess. I am not a sadist. I will though, delve deep into your mind and will expend a great deal of my time and energy in remoulding and reprogramming you to be the very best person you can be. For you, and of course for me. There will be rules. They will be followed. What / who am I looking for? I am seeking a female submissive and partner. I am not looking for a male submissive. I am looking for a long term relationship, I am not looking for play. I am not polyamorous nor do I, or will I, ever contemplate sharing what is mine. If I train you to be the perfect partner for me, I would not then want to share you with another, someone who might corrupt that which I have created. Size, age and race are all irrelevant to me. A mental connection is above all else, the hunger in me most in need of sating. I am a life long non-smoker. If you smoke then you will need to accept that this will stop immediately we meet for the first time. I am a light drinker and have never used or partaken of ANY illegal substances or drugs. Ever. I expect you to be fully drink and drugs free and prepared to take a test at the appropriate time, should I deem it necessary to determine the truth of any such affirmation on your part. I am only looking for a submissive woman, who is a US or Canadian citizen, no exceptions. I have set my profile to residing in New York, to appear on this site to all North American users. I am currently located in and living full time in the United Kingdom. As with all people, I have a story to tell and should we establish a rapport, more will be revealed. I am happy to exchange photos and at the appropriate time move onto Skype video chat to prove that I am the real deal. At the appropriate time I will explain how I see this relocation developing. I have thought this through, but obviously circumstances are individual. I will update this profile over time and I will update my journal in due course. Please feel free to get in touch.

6/9/2014 3:28:37 PM

Just a little food for thought:

The perfect guy is not the one who has the most money, or indeed is the most handsome. He is the one who knows how to make you smile and will take care of you each and every day, until the end of time.

6/8/2014 5:10:46 AM

Not sure that I will ever be in a position to repay the debt I owe the individual that led me to the realisation that I was a dominant man. Suffice to say that the full explanation of how I discovered that I was dominant is a very long and difficult story, but I will try to keep it as brief as possible.

I have for many years worked in a high profile environment where the need to make critical decisions, quickly and precisely, dove tailed very nicely with my need to be in control of my surroundings. At a young age I rapidly rose to I hold a position within a large US multinational, where I had a large number of employees (100+) reporting into me, and found that I was able to influence and direct with ease. However I didn’t at the time realise this was because of my own strength of personality and my own deep desire to lead.

At home, everything was run as liberal society would expect. With my wife, everything was a partnership and all decisions were made as equals. I genuinely believed this was how things should be and it always baffled me how I could be so successful at work where I was paid to take the lead, yet things seemed to be so difficult at home where I consciously took the decision NOT to lead. Life for most of our marriage seemed to be a constant battle with my wife at times fighting for the reigns because she felt I was dithering and not just getting on with things.

In short, after 20 years together our marriage had come to a complete halt. I spent some time away from home and connected with an old friend who clearly and unashamedly identified herself as a true submissive, and in the three months we were together she taught me a great deal about myself, and my true nature. While I gratefully welcomed this insight into my own being, I was a truly saddened that I didn’t come to this realisation before my marriage died.

So in short, even though I am a leader, I had to be led to this point of discovery rather than discovering my true nature on my own. To the one who led me there, all I can say to you is, thank you.