I was encouraged to write more about my vision and thoughts on what I as a master/a top want and would train for. It sparked me to write this journal entry.
The art of Service
(My goal as the Top is to teach a submissive to rival the service given to any royal)
Most people are simple not aware where they fall in geo-spatially and have to be shown and corrected. Most people have never been trained to use their body to display want and pleasure.
I don't mean the act but simply showing; how to stand, how to walk, how to look, and how to use your voice.
You can speak volumes with your eyes! An excellent example of using the eyes is FireFly Season 1, Episode 3: Our Mrs. Reynolds. (yes showing my eccentric side) When Saffron is introduced in "Firefly" she has the best example of the use of eyes in a submissive role. Note how she always looks down unless she is talking directly to a person. She would look up to speak or when the other person is speaking and looks down during pauses. This is a forum of submissive seduction, its attractive in a soft alluring manner.
An alluring "looking up" is different in that it's not straight up, unless the top has a preference for crisp militarism. For me it is a soft upward tilt of the head and a looking up with the eyes as if the person is they are looking as is towering over them. The eyes widen as if being allowed to look on the person is a pleasure.
(there are natural physical reaction a woman has with she is attracted or excited and a submissive is trying to mimic the reaction as best she can when speaking)
A well trained sub is a master of the progression of seduction of the flesh via seduction with the word and presentation. She makes herself vulnerable, innocence in tone and physical stance, A brief pause in her speech suggest hesitancy and vulnerability after she address her top (by title) and continuing with her statement. Holding herself erect but demur!
A well trained submissive is always studying, growing, expanding, and even when she not in sight of her master. She is cultivating self-discipline, will-power, patience.
Desire is an art that can be mastered by just about anyone and honed to perfection over a certain period of time. Moreover, it’s the secret of enticement!
Have a Man’s Best Interests at Heart…. A well trained sub can be so seductive and desirable. A real and true submissive is sincere and has a master's best interest at heart. A well trained Sub wants to keep herself pretty, seductive and desirable at all times. She is becoming a woman of excellence and extraordinary…
The Art of Charm, of Mystique - Cultivate a Seductive Voice and Expressions….
The VOICE.
A seductive voice is soft, sultry, throaty and deliberate (think Marilyn Monroe.) You can also practice speaking from your diaphragm - speaking your words softly, slowly but audibly. You want master how to speak like a modern day siren, so your master will not only be charmed, but expectant - wanting hear your voice. Your facial expressions and body language can constantly be conveying femininity and sensuality, aiding expression. Practice moving, gesturing and doing different facial expressions in front of the mirror, you will see the difference for yourself and remember how to present yourself physically.
Your Natural Cassolette….
Pheromones are basically a woman’s natural body scent or ‘cassolette’ - devised by nature for the propagation of the species. Besides your natural cassolette being the most irresistible "scent of a woman!"
American men love pumpkin pie and lavender scent. Studies have proven that a combination of pumpkin pie and lavender scent arouses American men like NO other scent. Also likes the vanilla, sandalwood and musky types of fragrances. Therefore flash those pulse points (or the nape of your neck) with those scents.
Employ the five senses - touch, taste, hearing, scent and touch.be a whole and not one dimensional. Articulating submission and desire. Desire is an art, a craft, a submissive's construction