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I have been in lifestyle for a few years and have enjoyed it. I have refined my tastes and decided on the things I like. I like eloquence without gaudy, simple with grace. A woman in fetish attire can have less appealing than a woman with confident posture and a demure bow. I am willing to work for the things that I like and spend the time to get them. Why do I want a slave? I want a slave because it will make me more "Me". What I mean is I am a certain kind of person, I wants the best that the world can offer. I love fine wines, fine cigars, fine food, and fine living. Therefor, it is natural that I want a fine slave. I want a slave to help broaden my life, to enrich my life and to make me a better person. I want a slave so I can help them develop themselves, to help them experience what I have, to help them grow into a worthy and better person. One pleased to serve.

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7/21/2012 3:17:18 PM

For all the ones I have been communicating with.  I am sorry for the break as I have been informed that I need to move to a new location as the owner of this rental is returning.  I hope to pick up with everyone after I am again settled.


11/12/2011 12:07:56 PM

I was encouraged to write more about my vision and thoughts on what I as a master/a top want and would train for.  It sparked me to write this journal entry.
The art of Service

(My goal as the Top is to teach a submissive to rival the service given to any royal)

Most people are simple not aware where they fall in geo-spatially and have to be shown and corrected.  Most people have never been trained to use their body to display want and pleasure.   

I don't mean the act but simply showing; how to stand, how to walk, how to look, and how to use your voice.  

You can speak volumes with your eyes!  An excellent example of using the eyes is  FireFly Season 1, Episode 3: Our Mrs. Reynolds.  (yes showing my eccentric side) When Saffron is introduced in "Firefly" she has the best example of the use of eyes in a submissive role.  Note how she always looks down unless she is talking directly to a person.  She would look up to speak or when the other person is speaking and looks down during pauses.  This is a forum of submissive seduction, its attractive in a soft alluring manner.  

An alluring "looking up" is different in that it's not straight up, unless the top has a preference for crisp militarism.  For me it is a soft upward tilt of the head and a looking up with the eyes as if the person is they are looking as is towering over them. The eyes widen as if being allowed to look on the person is a pleasure. 

(there are natural physical reaction a woman has with she is attracted or excited and a submissive is trying to mimic the reaction as best she can when speaking)

A well trained sub is a master of the progression of seduction of the flesh via seduction with the word and presentation.  She makes herself  vulnerable, innocence in tone and physical stance,  A brief pause in her speech suggest hesitancy and vulnerability after she address her top (by title) and continuing with her statement. Holding herself erect but demur!

A well trained submissive is always studying, growing, expanding, and even when she not in sight of her master. She is cultivating self-discipline, will-power, patience. 
Desire is an art that can be mastered by just about anyone and honed to perfection over a certain period of time.  Moreover, it’s the secret of enticement!

Have a Man’s Best Interests at Heart…. A well trained sub can be so seductive and desirable.  A real and true submissive is sincere and has a master's best interest at heart.  A well trained Sub wants to keep herself pretty, seductive and desirable at all times.  She is becoming a woman of excellence and extraordinary…

The Art of Charm, of Mystique - Cultivate a Seductive Voice and Expressions…. 

The VOICE.

A seductive voice is soft, sultry, throaty and deliberate (think Marilyn Monroe.) You can also practice speaking from your diaphragm - speaking your words softly, slowly but audibly. You want master how to speak like a modern day siren, so your master will not only be charmed, but expectant - wanting hear your voice.  Your facial expressions and body language can constantly be conveying femininity and sensuality, aiding expression.  Practice moving, gesturing and doing different facial expressions in front of the mirror,  you will see the difference for yourself and remember how to present yourself physically.

Your Natural Cassolette…. 

Pheromones are basically a woman’s natural body scent or ‘cassolette’ - devised by nature for the propagation of the species.  Besides your natural cassolette being the most irresistible "scent of a woman!" 

American men love pumpkin pie and lavender scent. Studies have proven that a combination of pumpkin pie and lavender scent arouses American men like NO other scent.  Also likes the vanilla, sandalwood and musky types of fragrances. Therefore flash those pulse points (or the nape of your neck) with those scents. 

Employ the five senses - touch, taste, hearing, scent and touch.be a whole and not one dimensional. Articulating submission and desire. Desire is an art, a craft, a submissive's construction


10/19/2009 10:35:13 AM
It is a powerful thing for a man to take on the role of Master of a woman.  A submissive woman is a very powerful woman because she has enormous inner strength.   A submissive woman is more intelligent and wise because of her understands of her empowering she has on her Master. She understands that power is captivating.

A wise submissive woman empowers her man.  She gives him him the necessary permission to be her Master. She starts this process with two key actions; firstly she is very obedient in all things, never arguing or refusing her Master. Secondly she reports to her Master all her misbehavior in expectation that she will be punished.

These two actions empower her Master into controlling her in her own interest. He becomes totally captivated by his good girl. This is  very intense and both become in awe of the other.  A Master is in awe of the strength of his sub as she lets go control and allows herself to be owned and a sub is in awe of the devotional strength of her Master.  "Empower your Master with your actions”.  

12/14/2008 6:57:55 AM
I was asked the other day about training. What caught my attention the most was that it was all about sex. Not that was what training was about but that is what she thought it meant. If I wanted a relationship with kinky sex sometimes I think I would get a girl friend with Kinky traits. Howsoever, I want a slave. I guess I need to explain what that means to me. A slave is someone that is dedicated to the perfection of service. That means by definition there is a relationship, to be able to serve you have to have someone to serve. In my mind I must honor that dedication, I have to demand the best service possible. This is the goal of training. Can you set a table, do you know were the silverware goes and how far the plates should be from the edge? Your dress would represent me; so what image do you display to the world not for you but for me? I think that real service is in the mind and as you train and surrender your thoughts your body and actions will follow. With that in mind I train with a lot of affirmations and mantras. This is not to say I don?t like sex. I do, a lot. Finding someone that fits on the physical level is important, I would however take on a slave without sex. In exchange for that quality of service. One of my favorite books is the marketplace series and I agree with the format that is laid out in the first book. One week of interviewing and then if excepted a temporary collar for training. I would think that a fitting ?final exam? would be a picnic. You would have to prepare, coffer, present, and service. I would find it challenging to perfectly display a picnic. To serve the meal in a pleasing manner with nothing to help cover those small mistakes. How to kneel and not reach. How to smile and look totally wanting and not get gravy on the edge of the plate. Passing a test like that would make me very proud. That would be a display of weeks if not months of training, it would be like a gifted piano student giving her recital to her mentor. I want quality and elegance in my life and am willing to work for it. I hope this rambling explains what I mean by training.

10/12/2008 2:05:41 PM
Why Sire wants a Slave ?People may ask?this obvious question.? I?want a slave because it will help me become a better me as I guide them to a better them.? What does that mean?? I mean that I am a certain kind of person,?a person who wants the best that the world can offer.??I love?fine wines,?fine food, and elegent living.?? So,?I want a fine refined person as a living work art, a slave.?a person dedicated to perfection as I see it. Many people say they want the good things in life and are are unwilling to work to obtain them, how to maintain them and how to deserve them.? Well, for?me it is simple.? You work for it. I?want?a slave to?help broaden?my life, to enrich my life; to?make me a better person.??I want a slave so?I can help them develop themselves, to help them?experience what?I have to offer, to help them grow into a?worthy and better person.? Many don't understand this.? Why work for a long time, precious existence when they can easily grab a few moments of limited bliss with a questionable person?? They see an opportunity?as an obstacle.???

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slavetrystan1990
 
 Age: 26
 Los Angeles, California