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Hetero Male Dominant, 33,  Cleveland Akron, Ohio
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Im 60,brown hair brown eyes, slender athletic build (175lbs.) Im clean (DDF), have good grooming practices, college-educated young professional, and love to please. If you want to chat with me live, my Kik is DoomBladeX.

In regular life, I like boating, jet skiing, fast cars, snow skiing, cultural events, good food, and intelligent conversation. I work out, enjoy many outdoor activities like running, rock climbing, concerts, and lastly I love to laugh. I enjoy art and science, hard work and fantasy. I like a variety of music, mostly rock metal techno, in a variety of s. I have other things that Im into, but Id rather have a two-way conversation than reveal every detail I have.

I LOVE getting rough, pleasing a beautiful woman, and get her screaming. Im definitely a dominate guy and can take charge and enjoy the situation. I speak with a partner to make sure she is comfortable and its a pleasurable event, eye contact is also huge for me. I do not prefer a one and done, but rather repeat sessions where I can take you deeper into delight. I am RESPECTFUL of any boundaries. I am drama-free and hoping for the same in fun times. It would be great to make some pleasant nights! That being said, Im hoping to have a friendly connection first before rushing right to the bedroom.

I feel that although not artistically creative, my energies and strengths lie in bedroom creativity. I feel lusty events to be like a symphony, many pieces under harmony. I like to think my guidance into sexy times to be the conductor, toys tools positions as the instruments, and female orgasm as the notes so sweet to my ear.

I like to utilize all of the senses when involved in lusty affairs. I want to smell your perfume, sweat, and excitement. I want to taste your juices and flavors of your body. I want to hear you moan and coo, between whispered words and shrieks of joy. I want to feel the lace, welts, and perspiration of your body. Total sensory immersion is the most rewarding of playful times and I want someone to feel the same.

I would say Im sexually creative, dirty minded, and patient in helping you blossom into the moaning little toy we both want. ) Im pretty picky, so if I message you its to get to know you, see if we click, and decide if it would be good to become friends or more. I like to lead in excitation and build a trusting relation where you want me to push your limits to test and reward yourself. I do enjoy doling punishment for specific reasons and because you look like you needed it ) I suppose ultimately Im looking for open and giving kinksters that would mind a slap, tickle, whip, poke, or prod in nice and naughty bits.












 Dominant Male

 Cleveland Akron 


 6' 0"

 180 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Switch Women

Domme/Dom Couples

Sub/Sub Couples

Female Led Couples

A Poly Household

 Lives For:

 Fine Dining


 Travel (Expert)


 Begging (Expert)


 You wearing my collar

 G-spot Stimulation

 Rear End Play (Expert)

 Hair Pulling (Expert)

 Obedience Training


 Spanking you (Expert)

 Vibrators (Expert)

 Card Games

 Biology (Expert)

 Chemistry (Expert)



 Auto Racing (Expert)



 Art Galleries

 Coffee Shops


 Museums (Expert)



 Martial Arts (Expert)


 Scuba Diving


 Blindfolding you

 Body Worship

 Breast Play

 Canes and Crops (Expert)

 Electrical Play (Beginner)

 Being Massaged


 Massage (Giving) (Expert)

 Mental Bondage

 Orgasm Control (Beginner)

 Sensation Play (Expert)

 Sensory Play


 Comedy Shows

 Historical Shows

 Horror Movies

 Body Building



 Amusement Parks

 Bar Hopping




 Renaissance Faires




 Ultimate Frisbee




 Local BDSM Community

 Erotic touch

 Gags (Beginner)

 Placing you on a leash


 Selecting the clothes you wear


 Role Playing


 Arcade Games

 Board Games



 Science Fiction

 1950s Lifestyle






 Going to the Opera

 Musical Theater

 Curious About:

 Wind Surfing

 Fire Play (Beginner)



 Suspension Bondage

 Wax Play (Beginner)


 Hard Limits:

 Genital Punishment

 Modern Primitivism

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Journal Entries:
7/2/2013 10:21:39 AM

This site seems to have a lot of scammers / phishers. If you message me, please include your favorite car in your first message so I know you can both read and are legit.

11/6/2011 8:12:29 PM

Sexy websites that make me get more creative in sexy playtime:

  • (My FL profile, similar but more pics and insight)
  • and its associated daughter sites:
  • Hogtied
  • Sex & Submission
  • Training of O
  • Everything Butt
  • Whipped Ass
  • Fucking Machines
  • Device Bondage
  • Water Bondage
  • Pissing

If content on these sites excite you, definitely message me.


10/28/2011 4:30:17 AM

What I am looking for:

Common interests online that will turn into a SANE meting IRL where we evaluate if it's beneficial to continue towards pursuing a relation that CollarMe is geared for.


I like:



Great Curves

A Dirty Mouth

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