I have been asked a couple times why I have been on here so long without finding anyone...the truth is I have found a few...but none I want to spend the rest of my life with.  I will enjoy women untill one comes along that I want to spend eternity with..I am in no hurry..I am not desperate and sex..although enjoyable..does not rule my life....those guys that desperately go with any girl that will take them I suggest to you are far from being Dominant.  The other aspect is I have a full life...I am just not on here very much and it is hard to build a relationship that way...submissive giurls seem to need a lot of attention...attention you wont get from me till after you become a part of my life..you think I'll never get a submissive girl that way?...here is a clue for you...most women have a strong submissive streak in them...and that comes to the forefront after they learn to trust a man.  I dont have a need to be in charge..I just am.  I do enjoy though what it does for the woman to completely surrender...nothing more beautiful, I am willing to make the effort to bring that out.