Collarspace.com

New orbit around the burning space sphere, new opportunity to present myself.

First and foremost, Im not a brute or a neanderthal, but I am capable of it very easily. If you read this before, I probably came across as a heartless sadist. No excuses, that was me, but Im not just one thing or one role. Ive been a Top, and Dom, a Daddy, and a Master, and I know the differences in all of them and am extremely comfortable in them. The beauty of this way of life is the ability to be more than a single dimensional being.

Manners matter! I dont think being rude is necessary, nor is it overly attractive to anyone. Im dominant, not a jerk - there is a difference. Im attracted to subs with slave tendencies, and full on slaves preferably. Ive earned the title of Master before, and I know what it means when its spoken in a heartfelt manner and screamed out in ecstacy both. Ive lived this for the entirety of this century, and have a decent level of experience, yet not so much I know it all. Besides, every woman is different, and should be treated so.

If youve gotten this far, congratulations. If any of it makes sense, drop me a line and lets talk.
11/9/2023 9:46:15 AM

Finally joined the half century club.  Considering how long it takes to update the profile, better here than there.  Still looking (or hunting depending on my mood) for a woman who fits with me.  

10/16/2023 12:48:57 PM

Sigh.  I am so tired of this.  NO MEN!  How difficult is it to understand this?  I don't care how "whatever" you are, there is nothing sexually arousing about men to me.  I also can't stand that I have tried no less the 5 ways to say this exact thing in my profile and it continues to be rejected.  Women can saw no men without a problem, but I do it and I'm being trans/homo/something else-phobic?  Why is having a "no men" rule acceptable for lesbians but not me?  I don't remember when I lost the ability to have preferences - did I miss a memo?

4/11/2023 9:09:34 AM

Back after a hiatus.  Finding something here that used to be hush hush but now it's worn like a badge of honor: disloyalty.  If you are in a marriage that has you looking outside of it, just leave.  Just be done with it and move on.  All you tell a potential partner is that they are wasting their time with you - loyalty is situational and if you are willing to gut your vanilla partner to step out, you'll gut your D/s side piece twice as fast no matter what you say a collar (or other D/s symbolism) means to you.  To the folks crawling around on here looking for some kinky on the sly, you do you, just keep it away from me.

11/24/2022 7:18:35 AM

Gender is a social construct and let's face it: around here societal norms are out the fucking window (actually shattered on the way out whooping and hollering in celebration as they leave) and I begrudge no one their exploration of their genuine identity. It's healthy as long as no one is truly harmed in the process. That said, if you are XY chromosomed and/or are equipped with male genitalia, I wish you well and hope you find what you are looking for, because I'm not it. I can't be convinced or cajoled and it becomes tiresome enduring it, so please stop.

2/8/2022 2:13:52 PM

Some days it's about the protocol, some days it's about the discipline, other days is being kind, or being cruel.  There are people who are happy with one flavor of this.  I'm not one of those men.  To be locked into only one mindset is worse than being a 'nilly, it shows no creativity and no adaptability.  Be flexible.  The more flexible the better (in mind AND body, preferably).

3/28/2018 10:52:00 PM
Because this site is the way it is, I cannot reply to messages if the sender has no visible profile. It truly makes conversation incredibly diffcicult. Also, why would I lie about my age? Thers no point to that. So, yes, my age is correct.
2/20/2018 1:52:17 PM
No, I won't use another service to talk with you because its more convienient to you. Aside from the fact that I don't take orders, and requests are completely at my discression, I will use this platform until such time I choose to use something else. I am not going to accept a woman trying to 'top me from the bottom' as it were. I've been doing this too long for those infantile games.
FitBonnie
 
 Age: 33
 Roswell, Georgia