I am a 44 yo Dominant new to the Philly area .
Looking to make friends within the Philly scene
I guess I need to put a lil more info..lol...where to start ,I was trained in the old gaurd style but have mellowed a bit over the years .I am a bit of a sadist who enjoys the fine art of giving erotic pain.I believe that the pain I give to a sub is a gift from me to them and that their submitting to me is their gift to me .
I believe sex and bdsm are both seperate entities ,while both can happen I feel sex is not required nor nessecary for me to derive pleasure .I can get just as much pleasure from watching a sub get release from the combination of pleasure/pain.
I also believe there is no such thing as a no limits sub and that whether you be sub or Dom a mutual respect is required.I believe in open honest communication and value a subs input ,in other words I like a sub with a mind and one who can express her needs and concerns ,What I don't want is a doormat.
Here I guess is where I am supposed to put that I am the "perfect Dom" and that I would be the only one for you .....lol..........another fairy tale I believe for we are all human and mistakes are made but the beauty of mistakes is they give us a chance to grow and learn and they are not really mistakes unless we repeat them .well enough said ,if you like what you see drop me a note and we can chat.
Have a great day unless ofcoarse you have made other plans .

another thing I should add is I am very well versed in the use of floggers ,crops ,paddles .
I also enjoy using clamps plugs ,blindfolds,clothespins(zipper),rope,chain ,Leather cuffs ,slappers .
I am also training in the use of singletail but am not even close to being able to use it on skin.