Being a dom isn't about having a sub fear you, it is about trust and love. A complete understanding of one another.
I haven't been able to participate in the lifestyle much but I would like to change that in the near future. I am going to college in the city for now and should graduate in 2 years with 2 degrees. I live a pretty vanilla lifestyle most days, I am just a bit kinky behind closed doors, well maybe more than a bit kinky.
I am kind of reserved when I meet most people although that depends on the person, but I am always trying to be friendly, it is amazing how people react to a genuine act of kindness. Its even better when it happens to you.
I am a lover of life. I enjoy hanging out with my family and friends and damn do I live for snowboarding in the Rockies. College is my life for now but education is what I respect the most.
I am kind of old school in my nature. I'd say some people on here jump the gun a bit and rush things. Obviously we are all here because we take interest in different kinks and lifestyles whether sub or domme or switch or tran, etc you get the picture. Talk casually at first and if there are shared interest of some sort than move on accordingly. I don't know how any sub could respond to some stupid one liner. There is a clear difference between game players and real doms but I don't think I need to explain that.
Other than that fellow collarme members good luck in the search. If I strike a cord with anyone just give me a shout.