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I am seeking one man who is willing to give me importance in their life.



My mind is creative, I love being challenged. I like to play hard and keep things moving, always, or Ill loose interest, hence it takes a lot of intelligence to keep up with me. I will do what I can to keep up with you.



I love the outdoors, being physically active and enjoying what the world has to offer, as well as, travel.



I want to understand you, and your needs, and let you get to know me as well.Respect is first and foremost, once you gain my respect, I will want to please in any way possible, this is my nature.


I want to be very honest, I am the kind of gal who expects the man to take care of me, I have always seen men as the provider, the one who takes care of his possessions and allows for a home that I can make comfortable for him. This does not by any means mean I am not able to take care of myself, Im a successful, capable woman who needs an equally successful man or greater, otherwise Im uncomfortable. By taking care of me, I mean being the man, knowing how to make decisions, knowing what he wants and having goals in life. This is who I am and expect an equal.

I am at the age in my life where I am looking to travel, relax and enjoy a companion, as well as, taking risks and finding the excitement of the kinky world. I want someone who is more than kink, able to have, and wants to have, someone emotionally close to them.


Please only contact me if you are available for a reallife connection, I will not play online, and expect to meet in person within a week or two. Please, if youre looking to play and discard, please continue. I have opportunities for playmates in my world, I seek a more long term connection, someone to travel and create projects, wake up to, spend countless hours discussing all the things that spark the mind. Maybe this site is not the place to be looking, but if there is a man out there that wants a little more than the excitement of a new shiny , we might be more of a fit.
3/25/2018 7:31:40 AM
So many changes, this is how I like life, ever changing. I was in a relationship with someone I quite enjoyed, but he was younger and not in the same place in life. I?m semi retired, fluid and able to live life wherever, whenever I like. Life is good, just one thing missing, partner in crime. I stay as busy as possible but love to relax with someone who keeps things surprising and fluid as well. I continue to need stimulation, maybe it?s my personality, always seeking new information and stimulus, why not, the world has not been completely traveled, yet;) If this is also your personality, let?s talk, maybe we can be fellow travelers, and possibly partners on our journey.
1/16/2016 7:38:14 AM
I've been off this site for 6 months now, yet it seems like a year at least. Interesting enough, I haven't been bamboosalled since I got off here. Just in getting back on, I've gotten my typical message from silly mosquito guy. For any of you that haven't had the pleasure, he asks how you would like to tie him to a tree and have mosquitos bite him, even offers a sum of 1000. Of course, for me that is too little a sum, so I told him for 10,000, I'd be happy to oblige, he then cussed at me...so "cute." I have found much amusement and love for life by meeting real life people. Have I found love? I think I have, yet not in the way many thinks it looks. I have found really good friends, many with benefits, who I genuinely love and would be there for, as they are good enough to show up for me, as well. Are any of them my guy, or I their girl, no. I appreciate the easiness of allowing others into my life to receive what is given, and give what I can, no drama, no serious expectations, beyond common human decency and manners. I have also found my inner slut, enjoying gang bangs and group sex. How fun that is, again, mutual respect and sexual pleasure make this quite appealing and hot fun! I'm not sure if I'll find the same idiocy on this site as before, if I do, I have free will and will simply move on. Isn't life nice that way? Again, being that I have a really good memory, if you've contacted me before, there's probably a reason why we didn't move forward, so my feelings won't be hurt if you don't contact me again. I have noticed there are many of the same people on this site...if we haven't opened up dialogue in the past, I'm always curious, so drop me a line if you'd like.
5/5/2015 8:09:35 PM
My goodness, how many men are there on this sight that get amusement out of playing women for fools?? I have found two now, which I suppose is not too many given this sight.? Two who have gone on complete pretense that they were serious about a relationship.? Enough so, that they would get to know me, and me...I'm not sure who I was getting to know.? Maybe a married man having fun getting a girl online to fall for them, or just a sociopath who finds pleasure in gaining trust from someone who is open enough to let themselves be know.? Any way it goes, it is fantastic!? Fantastic in that you believe you are not known, as a person who lacks decency to be honest, and be known as someone who has no intentions of follow through, but finds amusement in getting someone to make promises to you online.
Interesting because it's easy to dodge someone who is asinine and rude, they show their colors quickly.? But there are these types who have the gaul to be a complete gentleman and then lead with pretense of a true, real time relationship, to only have a fantastic story to tell with it comes time to meet.
Funny enough, one of them approached me again, the exact same way they had the first time, not even remembering they had actually done it before.
I have a good memory.? At this point, I think I've made some friends on this crazy site, most of them are people who are not ready to jump, and are willing to say it.? So we just touch base.
Life is funny--I'm at a loss, not even sure anyone on here is really up for the real deal.? But, silly me, I am a hopeless romantic.
9/30/2014 6:07:29 PM
9/30
I just watched a cute new sit com.  Romantic--I'm feeling fed up with this site.  It seems that i'm completely barking up the wrong tree.  I thought that people got on this sight to actually meet people.  Well, this does not seem to be true for the most part.

Many want to have cyber sex--too many.  Others want to email back and forth, till the cows come home.  And the rest, as far as I can tell, don't want to do anything to try to get to know someone who is crazy enough to take the risk and email them in the first place.

Like I've seen many of you guys write, please just have the decency to write and say, thanks, but no thanks.

I'd love it if you're really on here to meet some one, that you at least take a chance and respond with something.

If I don't write you back, it's because you've totally offended me, or you are just playing and have no intentions other than that--it's obvious.

Well, I have written many letters and have been thick skinned, but i'm fed up.  I am really here to meet a kinky guy who really wants to connect and see if there is enough to take things further than not.

So there.  I've said it.
redvelvet2088
 
 Age: 22
  Illinois