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Realism

An alpha male, quiet but very determined, focused and confident in his own skin. Not arrogant, confident - there is a difference... I am looking for a submissive/slave to have fun with and push to become the best sub they can be. I have many years of experience in both play and relationships but what happens in play when two people come together is always different, which is what makes it so great... I really do care for a sub but that does not stop me from hurting them because I know that's what we both need. I am more into the sexual side of BDSM such as rough sex, hair pulling, face slapping, choking than spending a hour tying someone up. I very much enjoy leading people into new experiences, finding out their strengths and weaknesses and I play to a sub's limits but will always be pushing them to expand their boundaries. Although I swing a mean crop, my biggest love has always been humiliation and degradation, mainly because it requires a great deal of thought and intelligence and demands I get into the darkest corners of your mind. I am a very laid back, fun guy... But I can play at being a total cunt very well :) "The only way to get rid of temptation is to yield to it. Resist it and your soul grows sick with longing, for the things it has forbidden itself” Oscar Wilde
Embers2010
 
 Age: 34
 Beijing, China