Collarspace.com

Ok to start here are the two biggest flaws with me I am a geek and I have very little experience, though to be honest the first is a matter of personal preference. The reason I am on this site is that vanilla relationships are fine but they usually leave me wanting in the bedroom which leads to dissatisfaction. Personally my tastes vary widely and I am open to new ideas but one of the themes that go through all of my favorite plays is that one party is being "forced" and/or "broken down". Ultimately I am looking for a vanilla relationship with kink behind closed doors/in the bedroom. However, in the mean time I am open to discussing ideas, finding friends, and casual play.
WitchyWoman73