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	please don't address me as "Mistress" or "Goddess" in the first message. If you send a cock or ass shot I won't respond to your message. Seeking submissive male for long term relationship. Six feet or taller would be nice. This big Domme loves to snuggle with a tall subbie. While I have kinky activities I enjoy they do not define my dominance. My dominance does not happen when I don a certain article of clothing or take on a contrived femdom "attitude". Not interested in lesbians, switches, sissies, cross-dressers and, most of all, "do-me" subs. No bisexuals. No married men, please. Sharing vanilla interests is important too. Share your interests in your first message. Leave your kinks out of the first message. If your first message is a one-liner such as "how are you" I won't respond. If you send your IM address or phone number in the first message I won't respond. If your first message is crude I won't respond. I think that's clear. I like to message in CM in the beginning to see if there is compatibility before switching to IM or email. I take my time. If that is inconvenient for you then do not message me in the first place. New submissives should at least have done some reading about the lifestyle - the message forums on this site are excellent for that. Femdom porn is not indicative of a femdom relationship, at all. If you're serious about a D/s relationship please send an appropriate message and we'll see where it goes from there. Don't refer to me as "Goddess" or "Mistress" when writing.

8/12/2012 11:23:01 AM

Um, yeah guys. I know you're here to find a Mistress. Sending that statement to me in a first message will get you deleted unread.

1/3/2012 12:57:44 AM

If you message me and your profile is blank, I'm not going to respond. And, PLEASE, don't give the excuse that you rather talk to get to know each other. That's just laziness.

Thanks.

8/7/2011 6:18:45 PM

If you're married, please don't contact me. I have no interest in "discrete, daytime play".

Pay a pro to get your jollies.

4/29/2011 9:08:02 PM

If you have an account name with "strapon" or "butt" in it, and/or have a pic of your cock or gaping asshole in your profile, you can pretty much count on me never contacting you or having any interest in you.

4/15/2011 4:16:09 AM

I am looking for a female-led relationship. I want to get to know a man on all levels, feel a connection with him and him with me. Any kink we may indulge in will eventually become part of a loving, committed relationship. I don't believe woman are superior or that men are losers. If you're a loser, I certainly am not interested in having a relationship with you.

I AM NOT looking for someone to strip and dance on cam or to send me pictures of his cock in a chastity device. If this is what your idea of being dominated by a woman is all about, please move on.

4/11/2011 10:06:53 PM

BDSM porn IS NOT a documentary of the lifestyle. If you have been watching porn for years and now want to try the lifestyle, please don't contact me. I AM NOT like the dominatrix characters in the films.

2/2/2011 6:32:56 PM

Please, I beg of you, don't post pics of your cock or gaping asshole

on your profile or include it in a message to me. I'M NOT INTERESTED. EVER.

I want to know you as a person first. Find that connection. How about a nice pic of you dressed neatly and completely with a smile on your face. *sigh*, now that appeals to a woman, Domme or vanilla.

Take my advice boys.....PLEASE.

12/20/2010 10:53:27 AM

Do-me, Do-me, Do-me. Aaaggghhh. Aren't there any submissives out there who truly want to serve?

11/18/2010 9:02:10 PM

OK, you write me and tell me you want to worship my feet, the feet of a Goddess. I write back and say "no thanks", then you send me messages calling me all sorts of names and saying I'm a phony. Um, ok. LOL

10/5/2010 7:15:44 PM

Just to make it easier for all you subs out there who are tired of the crap on this site, I am NOT a money Domme. :)

8/5/2010 8:12:09 PM

Hey guys, pay attention!!

Don't message me the day after you've blocked me. LOL

7/12/2010 6:43:54 PM

Hey guys. Find out what body type the Domme you're chatting with has before you make insulting remarks about that type. LOL

7/1/2010 1:32:47 PM

If you are an attorney please don't contact me. I've had my fill. LOL
Thanks.

6/16/2010 8:12:27 PM

I got blocked by a sub because I don't believe in the occult. Hilarious!!!

6/16/2010 7:22:56 PM

Please be able to write English correctly. Messages with misspellings, cyberspeak and incoherent sentences will be deleted.