Is there a difference between BDSM and D/s? I wish this lifestyle were more defined. One should mean "I only play" and one should mean "this is my relationship lifestyle". Although I respect the diversity of people, and the fact that this is just play for most, I am not looking for just play whatsoever.

I am wondering if this site is really for me.. I think it is time for me to finally go out to muches, or find some kind of real-life group.

I am not looking to fill a part time fetish. Not that I think there is anything wrong with that, but I am 24/7, into D/s relationships, and I am into a Daddy-type :)