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| I haven't moved to the Albany area quite yet- that will be in a month (in late June-ish). I'm actually moving somewhere between Albany and Coburg-ish at that time. I'll look at it a little harder at the end of June. :). I'm moving for a career change and so I won't show my face to just anyone.
I'm not looking to play or whatever people want to call it. I'm just probably in the wrong place looking for something that doesn't exist here..it might not even exist anywhere from my experience.
I'm a mom. That and my career are my main priorities. I'm not dumb, I won't be a door mat, and I don't take being told what to do very well when I'm treated like crap. In fact, I hold my own pretty well. Smart and self-respecting may not be your type, but it's mine.
I've tried this a couple of times, but everyone seems to be married or just wants to have sex. I want to find someone who can be my friend and build something incredible from there. I guess that's what's unique about me on this site.
I've dated before and well, there are so many guys out there who don't carry themselves like men.
To me, I think everyone has a little bit of d/s in them. They're born with it. Finding that person who really gets why you do the things you do or behave the way you behave on that d or s level is like finding your matching puzzle piece. It's not about the sex or being able to order someone around. There's a whole emotional deeper connecting dynamic that unites two very special people. I am very vanilla. I work, have kids, family, and friends who are the biggest part of my life. Behind closed doors, and even subtly in the open, I am so much more than vanilla.
I love kids. They are beautiful and impressionable. This is one reason I've devoted living a good life for my own children to see. I am real, and when the love of my life finds me, he will see that it's really me who wants to give him my all. I have a loving heart and a passionate spirit and I am excited about that moment when that one incredible man sees that light in my heart and knows without a doubt that I'm his.
Anyway, if you're interested in just chatting at first, I'd love to hear from you. :)
I will exchange pics with the right people, or person.
I am also a new member on :). Hey, I like to hear things straight up. Being a philosopher and having an opinion doesn't necessarily mean that I'm going to agree with you. If you live far away from me, I'm not relocating and I don't have "online" friendships. I'm also not interested in anyone who's 15 years or more older than me or 4 years or more you get than me unless it is strictly friendship. If you're married, poly, or you have someone who believes she is your girlfriend, I'm not interested.
OH- if you message me giving me a command because you're a dominant person and I'm a submissive person, please remember that I am not your submissive person and you kinda just come across as an asshole. If you have anything negative to say about my weight, just keep it to yourself, please. I'm not yours...I'm okay with that. I don't need anymore criticism than I already give myself for it. Seriously, I love my heart and my personality. I love my laugh and positive attitude. I love that I have worked hard for what I have in life and I love what I do for a living and having two graduate degrees. You don't have to love anything about me, but you can also respect me enough to keep your negative comments to yourself. I can't believe I'm having to tell old men this....Jeez...
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It's funny to think about how just 2-3 years ago, I was telling my friends that it's important to dress and look nice when you're going anywhere because you might meet the love of your life. That first impression is important! Now, My priorities have changed so much and I really don't care..I think I'd rather have a Jeep :). |
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"i'll pay you 800 buck. if you will take me out where the mosquitoes are real bad and tie me up and drop my pants. im willing to wait till there bad and ill come to you as there not many here."
Please, don't send me crap like this...this dude is odd. Seriously, does my profile scream, "Hey weird submissive men..send me your odd requests?" No. |
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| Age: 35 |
| Yarmouth,
Maine |
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