One day we hope to find that submissive that would join our family. But, much like vanilla dating it is about the people who come into your life casually and everything grows, or does not, from there. Along the way, great friends can be made, lovers found, or the maybe the two will find the one. It all lies around that next bend.

He will always be Dom, She will always only be a sub. It seems to be an issue with wiring.

We are not reckless, not bed hoppers, not even primarily swappers. We are explorers. We are dreamers. We live and envision lives committed to living all of our dreams – sexual and otherwise.

If you’ve got no passions outside of the bedroom, we pass.

If you think becoming submissive is to become less, you don’t get it.

If you know that life has prepared you to be a sub. We pass.

If it is something that is built in, we are intrigued.

And, if you are couple where both are EQUALLY impassioned with the allure of life and sexuality on the edge, we’d probably love to meet ya.

Sir T and jackie-o