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It's been a while, so I thought it was time for an update:
Who I Am: I'm a strict dominant, bisexual poly lady. I don't believe that love only comes around in the form of a one person at a time relationship, and I don't believe love is a requirement before sex and BDSM fun, but I do believe that honesty is a must. I try to live my life as drama-free as possible and as such I would like to direct jealous or possessive subs to try another dominant because we just won't work out.
I tend to be on the sadistic side, but I'm in control of myself enough to hold back till I know a sub's body well. I have a tendency towards over-discussing many aspects of my kink with my partners to ensure they know what they are consenting to as safety is paramount for me. I'm not much of a cuddly girly-girl, but when I do fall for someone they never have to question how I feel about them. I'm educated, but I enjoy being silly and crazy at the drop of a hat. I eagerly await the next best thing in technology, yet I'm most happy outside away from it all. I can't live without music, yet I treasure peace and quiet more than money. I love living so close to one of the biggest cities in America because of all the art, culture, and fast-paced night life ... but I'm even happier that I don't live in the middle of all that.
What/Who I'm Looking For: I'm looking for a submissive or a slave woman primarily. I've very flexible with my life and as such I don't feel right trying to pin down exactly what I want, thus ignoring other opportunities that might be a better fit. I'm open to a casual relationship, but what I really seek is something more serious. I'm not looking for a "soul-mate" so much, but if I happen to find one then that's just a bonus. My ultimate goal is to find someone who I fit with so well that we would enter into a 24/7 TPE relationship. Someone who understands that a submissive/slave doesn't mean that they are a mindless doormat. Someone who I CAN micro-manage, but is smart enough and perceptive enough that I don't need to.
The woman I am looking for doesn't have to be experienced in BDSM, have model looks, an advanced degree, etc. I'm not looking for perfect person. I'm looking for the right person.
*Note to all males* I do not want to talk to you at all. Nothing personal, just not interested ... and there is really nothing you can do to change my mind so let's not waste each other's time. No manly dominants, no sissy subs, no any body that has something fleshy dangling between their legs. Unless you are completely post-op, I am not interested in TS.
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While I don't feel like I need to explain myself to anyone, I feel like some people did not understand my preferences. So I'm going to clarify this for those of you who can't wrap your head around me liking these things and being a female dominant.
Rape play- I do not have a fetish about being raped, I have a fetish about RAPING another person. Has no one on this website heard of a strap-on? What do you think happens in female prisons?
Housework- Once again, not longing to do this myself. What is it about having the XX chromasome that makes people think that I have a love of cleaning? I have a love of the power I feel in having someone so completely committed to me is cleaning my house.
Everything else- Those two are the big ones people have been getting their panties in a twist over. I'm sure that there will be others. Please note that from now on everything I talk about, every action I enjoy, every mention of a BDSM act I am talking about enjoying it from a dominant point of view.
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*DUE* to a rise in stupidity, I am no longer willing to talk to any men. If you have a penis between your legs and you want to keep it, do not hit that "send message" button.
I am still looking for a women (or men who wish to become full women). I want to find someone who I can really commit myself to.
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To continue along with my previous theme, I am going to list things here that are not options for me in the my interests section that I am very much interested in.
Rape play, wax, cuffs, public humiliation, privet humiliation, clothing chosen, forced domestic, bondage, corset training, caging, BDSM out-doors in privet areas, blindfolds, and I have many more that I will have to fill you in on later. |
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I've noticed that different genders, sexual orientations, and profile types will get you a different list of options for your interests section. Collarme even puts it in big font at the bottom of the page were you can select these interests.
I do not understand why it wouldn't be easier for collarme to just list everything, and not try to guess ahead who would like what. This process of doing things just misses things sometimes. There are so many options that are given to male dominant s that I enjoy doing, but are not given to me as options. I guess I will just have to fill in the blanks on my own for now. |
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