PROFILE 1 - BDSM

Although I'm not sold on the labels, for the sake of convenience I'd call myself dominant. I do have to be in control, but it is also important to me that the girl is enjoying herself, even if she doesn't necessarily seem to be at the time. I'm a particular fan of degradation and humiliation, but feel it should be used sparingly, since it suffers quite heavily from the law of diminishing returns. It needs shock value to be truly effective, after all.

I'm looking for either a submissive girl keen to explore, or potentially a full time slave. I'd want to work up to that one, though, as it's a major commitment and not one I feel should be made lightly.

I'm willing to discuss pretty much any kink, and tend to believe you should try almost anything once.

Profile 2 - Personal

So, outside the bedroom! I'm a sort of cynical optimist - cynical about the nature of things but seldom bothered heavily by them. I'm often described as patient, and I'm generally quick to laugh, although when something does finally erode my patience, I can give as good as I get! I have a professional level job which is quite important to me, but I'm a big believer in cutting the connection to the office the moment I leave. I don't bring it home with me. Nobody wants to hear it.

I'm quick to trust the first time, and very, very slow to trust the second.