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I am pansexual and polyamorous, and interested in meeting people +8 yrs and -3 yrs from my age. I don't particularly care about being discreet, but can practice discretion if my partner wishes. I'm a very kinky person to most of the world, but there are, admittedly, some fetishes that don't interest me (yet?).
As far as I'm concerned, the best place to have sex is in a bedroom with lots of rope and bondage equipment, but I'm not against playing outdoors. If I had my way, I would be fucking/playing/scening to techno or anything with a hard bass beat as often as I could.
I'm not married, but I do view honesty within marriage to be an absolute must, so any extramarital affairs could not be on the sly. My feelings on one-night stands are that they are exciting, but devoid of the kind of trust needed for my preferred level of activity.
Sensuality is reserved for bonding and some foreplay. I can be soft as well as hard, and am not against cuddling because recognizing and welcoming a partner's touch is critical to a relationship's success. I adore the feeling of being penetrated and doing the penetrating, but, being a woman, I also have to admit that fucking in and of itself is not completely fulfilling. Quickies aside, foreplay should be the main event.
I'm looking for more than just a fuck buddy. I want to form a true bond with someone, which to me means filtering as if I were filtering for possible significant others. I'm looking for someone who is funny, smart, not arrogant, has a pretty good grasp on their life, and hopefully has interesting things to talk about because I'm more of a listener than a talker (although I have done my fair share); need not be human to apply.
Strong people who have mastered the art of letting their baggage go seem to be super-hard to find, but that is also a quality that I look for. I'm not here to lead the charge in your ever-evolving life's journey; that's your job. (This is not to say that I'm hard, cruel, or will abandon you at the first sign of trouble, but if you have hard-core pre-established instabilities, maybe you shouldn't be dating in the first place.)
Also, wearing period garb, having tattoo's, piercings, and/or a hearing aid (I dig deaf chicks and am not ashamed to admit it) are all pretty big turn-ons for me.
Note: I am not dumb. Just because I am a little submissive does not mean that I will allow you to take advantage of me. I am not interested in flakes, liars, or other unsavory persons who will not treat me with respect. I'm pretty easy to get along with if you can handle all of the above, so send me a message!
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