Aloha;
I am seeking a series of casual dates, or intimate encouters, over the course of a long term relationship. I am open to any length of relationship. Ultimately, I think we all would like a life long partner.

Shibari (Japanese bondage) is done with great care and has a long history...Its basic purpose is to immmobilize and restrain its victims without causing undue injury or pain...Its main purpose is to emphasize humiliation... generally one is tied up while being teased and tormented, used and abused, on the brink of orgasm only to be slapped, spanked, and flogged into submission, forced to do all those things one would never do otherwise, all the while struggling, wriggling, and writhing in your restraints??

And then incorporating Tantra, the sacred art of ecstasy and foreplay, the art of remaining aroused for extended periods of time, to build up the tension of orgasm until arousal becomes unbearable, to expand, enrich, enhance, experiment and explore the irresistible desire to be desired irresistibly...the more unbearable arousal becomes, more intense the oncoming orgasm...go to the edge of orgasm and stop, settle down and start up again, over and over...heightening our senses of touch, taste, smell, sound and sight with massage, wine, fruits, breathing, and dancing...teasing and tormenting the body... making one beg, making one say and do whatever one wants the other to, making one surrender one's Self...until we become best of friends...until our bodies, minds, and souls are so synchronized we can choose the most opportune time to release ourselves from this mundane world...or not...or continue to see how far we can go...exercise self-discipline, self-respect, and self-control... interested??

I am also interested in Taoist sex practices in which female sexual pleasure is directly related to male sexual control and discipline of maintaining erection and arousal and not ejaculating inopportunely.

I am not submissive, but sometimes (about 20% of the time) enjoy being in submission to women who have earned my respect.

Me?? I'm around 5'7", 145#, very fit, firm, flexible, dark longish hair, dark eyes, dark mind, very clean and healthy too...on weekends I take dance class...live drumming, live singing... you can spy on me, watch me hop, skip, jump, shake, shimmy and gyrate...I've great rhythm and grace...lead a very clean and healthy lifestyle...this is truly the secret to youth...May the Force be with you...Ciao.