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Raiynebow

I have been in the lifestyle on and off for some time now. I have been a Mistress, a slave, a sub, a pet, a baby girl, a mentor, a learner, and more. I can not truly say that I am either submissive or dominant. I am a bit of both all wrapped up into one. When it comes to the bedroom, yes I am 100% a submissive. Outside of the bedroom, I can be very dominant. Through my life's journey I have learned many things. I am not a doormat. Even in submissive mode, I am not a worthless sexual object that can be walked all over. Even as a slave, I have a mind and I am worth something. I have also learned that without the submissive, there is no dominant. I think that was the first rule I ever learned. For the dominant can not be dominant if that power is not given to them. Though I have been in the lifestyle for a good 12 years, I can not say I am an expert. I continue to learn and grow everyday. I find that being a switch helps me to be better in both aspects. You can not be a good dominant when you do not know how a submissive thinks or feels and vica versa. If you want to talk and get to know me, message me. I do not live on the computer so it may be a day or two before I get back to you. I do have a life, even if it is vanilla. I love being outdoors and the weather right now is perfect just for that. I am looking for friends mainly right now. I do not look for relationships as I feel that they will happen on their own. Last little note, if you are looking to grow your chain even more or you think that you can control me, please continue your search elsewhere. I am sick of the lies and the games. I do not have time for all of it, its why I am looking for just friends at this time.
5/2/2012 1:28:48 PM

You have to love how if you are just looking for friends or what not, you get all this views but no one talks. Though, if you have a sexual or kinky or taboo screen name, your inbox stays full all the time.

 

Don't you love how you come across all the slaves and submissive profiles and they go on about they are worthless and only good for sex. Why would anyone want a worthless possession? My possessions are precious and I wouldn't want to keep them if they were worthless.

 

Don't you love how Dominants go on about how they will degrade and break you, lower your self esteem so that you won't love yourself or feel you are worth anything. Now before the hate mail starts, I do get into humiliation and degradation at times, I'm not hating on it. Why lower someone so low that they don't think they can do anything, when they should think highly of themselves to be able to be put in the situations they are put in and give up that control.

 

I will say I was once one of those submissives. I thought of myself as a sexual object that was only good for one thing, pleasure. My self esteem and confidence were shot so low that I didn't think anyone would want me. It took my eyes being opened to see that I am precious, worthy, and even priceless.

 

Submission is a gift, despite some people's thoughts. That gift if precious and should be handled greatly, because without that gift, you are and have nothing but yourself. A sub can be a sub/slave whenever, but a true Dominant can't dominate themselves.

 

MsKatherine80
 
 Age: 24
 Newyork, Alabama