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	I'm an easy going fellow, but a bit private in my personal dealings. Born in England, moved to the US fairly early on. I'm well traveled and enjoy any sort of conversation so long as its pleasant for everyone involved. I'm a writer of both fiction and non-fiction. If you feel like playing a bit, or just want to have a friendly chat, feel free to message me. Also, if I should happen to greet you, take note that it's almost always something rather vanilla, generally a hello. Why is this? It's quite simple really: if we lack the rapport to have a simple back and forth greeting I doubt either of us will be particularly amused by any other form of conversation. That's not necessarily a bad thing as two people don't always click, but it is a litmus test of a sort. If you are still reading here that is a litmus test of an entirely different sort and we can be friends now. ****************************************************** An update and more information about myself has been requested, and in retrospect is probably a good idea to provide. I'm not really here to be called by some title, and I especially don't care to go by Sir-Dom-Master-Daddy-Super God or some similar appellation: how gaudy would that be for a real person to go by? I am here because this is in fact my sexuality. I, like you, can't make my dominant tendencies go away, I can't ignore them, I can't "cure" them (and wouldn't want to), and it's simply something I have to live with but enjoy living with. What I primarily am seeking here is a means by which I can incorporate a part of myself into my outer life in a way that allows me to continue to live as I please. As to what I am seeking... I am flexible. To me this is about the exchange of power, and I take my pleasure from having this currency accumulate in my hands. It doesn't really matter to me what your fetish is as long as it's something I am comfortable with. It doesn't really matter to me what limits you prefer so long as power and gratification are exchanged within those limits to a degree we both find satisfactory. To me both mental and physical aspects of BDSM are highly important. I have also been asked how I feel about being a young dom when so many prefer men with more experience. I feel that everyone's sexuality is their own business and asking someone to change their preferences is silly and presumptuous. If someone prefers an older partner, a younger partner, a female partner, a male partner, a dom sub or switch, then that's entirely their affair and no business of mine or someone else's. What does bother me is the sheer lack of regard some individuals here have for one another. I'm certainly not here to rain on your parade or disrespect you, and I think we're all here looking to find something that we think we can find with one another. If I message you and you've explicitly stated that I'm not what you're looking for then it is most likely that I saw a question or problematic situation on your profile or journal entry and am offering help or giving you an answer. Well, that was certainly a bit longer than I expected it to be. Take care and have a nice day.

2/14/2012 12:54:09 AM

Happy Valentine's Day! No clue how I'm celebrating, but it will likely involve Crown Royale and cream soda.

2/10/2012 1:54:22 PM

For the very first time in my life I fell down a flight of stairs. Apparently that really does happen.

2/6/2012 4:39:43 PM

In my experience, people don't look for what they really want. They don't ask for what they know they really need. They don't try to do what needs to be done when it's in their power to do so. That's part of the fun for me about this site honestly: I'm the type of person who simply likes to get a reaction from people, and aside from the fakes and obvious scams the reactions I get from people are as amusingly dysfunctional as I anticipated.

People are fascinating, and I don't think they will ever come to bore me.

1/27/2012 3:51:07 AM

Out of the hospital now, yay!