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PLEASE READ MY HARD LIMITS and WHOLE profile BEFORE you message me... ...if you cannot take 2 minutes to read a profile, you will get nowhere with a real person nor any type of relationship. Please send a message with more than "Hi" or a few words. I get many messages. If you want my attention you need to stand out IN A POSITIVE WAY.

CONTRARY TO ANYTHING YOU MAY READ ON OTHER PROFILES, I AM NOT OWNED BY ANYONE.

RESPECT: Learn it - Know it - Show it

WORDS ARE IMPORTANT, PLEASE CHOOSE THEM WISELY

Greetings! My Name is Raine. I am a genderqueer, hedonistic, polyamorous, switch, who leans toward bottoming/subbing. In bottom and/or sub mode I am an intense masochist, who especially enjoys punishment role play, spanking, belts, caning, flogging, and face slapping. (I am best described as an intense masochist who enjoys being dominated during pain play.) I would love to meet more intense, confident, creative dominant sadists, sadomasochists, and switches. I also enjoy hypno-play. As a sub and/or bottom I seek sadists who know how to capture mind and body alike, without humiliation. I desire to be dominated, within a scene and/or relationship, pushed to a level of stingy pain, which gives me an intense endorphin rush/high until I feel I am floating/flying in/above the atmosphere *while staying connected to my partner.* Subspace is a headspace to me and flying is not subspace. I wish to fulfill you with my submission, moans, screams, and taking of said pain, among other negotiated play. I need rules, structure and protocal. Consequesnces are part of having rules. If you cannot provide structure and discipline then pass on by. I thoroughly enjoy edge play and seek partners who like to push the envelope mentally, emotionally, and physically. If this is to be a scene, even in an ongoing play partnership which is not more than that, please do not mistake affection for more. I am very tight about my boundaries. You need to be honest in what level you seek this partnership to be and I will not cross those boundaries. If you feel a need for change in any way and want to renegotiate, then you need to tell me, as soon as you feel it, as we will have to stop, check our boundaries, talk it through, thus renegotiating. I will not cross any boundary we have set. You should be able to say/do the same. This is not code for deceit, dishonesty, or cheating of any kind. When it comes to impact play, I only enjoy STINGY impact play on myself. If you are a thud only player, please keep looking. However, as a top or dom I can give thud or sting. I seek intellectually stimulating conversation (there are no bigger turn-ons than intelligence and confidence) with those who may become friends, play partners, or more (if you are Polyamorous, willing to get to know me, are very open-minded and seek a partnership -no matter the level of that partnership (even one based on play)- with an intelligent, feisty, affectionate, submissive/switch, outgoing genderqueer person. You must be comfortable with the fact that I am genderqueer. Please ask me about this if it's unclear to you.
Although I do enjoy pure sensation play (top/bottom roles), I prefer to be dominated mentally as well as physically. I find it hard to submit to one who is only physically dominant, though I will top or bottom with minimal power exchange on rare occasion.
I do enjoy topping and domming as a sadist, including impact play, sensory dep, some edge play, etc. I would like to find a mentor to help me develop more honed skills in needle play, cutting, and rope bondage. Above all else, I require HONESTY. I will always be honest with everyone involved with me directly or peripherally, even if that means it isn't what one wants to hear. I demand the same from you and yours. It is better to always be honest and find (sooner than later) that we are not compatible, or have issues we need to discuss.
If you can't be completely honest, no matter the gravity of the issue, you can't be trusted (IMO). As TRUST is the cornerstone of ALL relationships. I seek, minimally, play partner relationships (meaning a continued/regular play partnership, but am open to casual (non-sexual) play at play parties on occasion. If you dislike the kink community or public play then please pass on by. Don't take every kink to be a must or must not. I have been a presenter and 'stunt bottom' at demos for knife play, toy making, flogging, caning, breath play, Polyamory, etc. I am always willing to help those new to the BDSM world, As long as they/you are committed to learning. My time is precious. I believe in giving back, as I would not be where I am if it weren't for others who gave back when I was getting my feet wet in the community. The last class I presented was Polyamory 101. WHAT I AM NOT: *I have ZERO INTEREST in being a slave. I don't do long distance relationships, will not relocate, nor do I cyber. (Now really, you can't put me over your lap and spank me through the 'net. -WEG) HARD LIMITS: Humiliation, degradation, liars/being lied to, scat, tickling, gags, playing with anyone while they are drinking, drugging (and yes, pot is a drug), too tired, or angry (If you can't safely drive, you will not be playing with my life or yours), heavy rope bondage (though I enjoy being retrained with cuffs, chains, shackles,etc), animals, real children/minors, anything dead (this has nothing to do with leather), thuddy impact play as a bottom/sub, sutures, most medical play, hanging, water boarding, and probably a couple more I have forgotten to name at this time, (on top of things like chainsaws and other ridiculous stuff.) Note: I play using SSC or RACK and I insist on safewords for all involved, unless plain speace is negotiated for non role play scenes. Personal stuff: I am an artist. I write lyrics, poetry, and other musings. I also create various types of visual art and music (my favorite visual art to create is mixed media) and I am learning about photography. Music (creating it and listening to others' music) feeds my soul and is as important as air to me. There is so much more to who I am, but to find out what, you'll have to take a chance, message me, and spend some time to really get to know me.... ^..^__ I am open to answering any respectful questions. Thanks for stopping by :-) -Raine I DO NOT GIVE PERMISSION TO ANYONE/ANY INSTITUTION
TO USE ANY PORTION OF MY (THIS) PROFILE, OR ANY TEXT/POST(S)/WRITING OF MINE FROM THIS WEBSITE OR ANY OTHER AFFILIATED WEBSITE. If you even wish to link to my writing or other media, you must write me for and obtain written permission from me prior to saving it, posting it copying it, linking to it, or usng it in any manner.

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6/30/2010 12:09:17 AM
Please be honest with yourself and others if you expect to meet me. Too many do not know what they want or even who they are and yet they expect others to give it to the. Give *WHAT* though???

And really, it takes a couple of minutes to read a profile. and you will spen a lot more time than that getting to know someone. Why not read first, so you don't waste YOUR time?

I am very specific so that you will know if we have enough in common to meet. If you are unwilling to read my profile (which, in case you are unaware, is shown if you did or did not read it) then DON'T bother to message at all. You are not worth MY time.

If you are serious about BDSM and serious about relationships and not just a fuck then we MAY have something in common. If you are looking for sex, please don't message me at all.

I am owned and I live with my Daddy (HypnoticDaddy) and neither He nor I will consider anyone seeking sex.
Sex is special to me and is only going to happen once I feel ready. I must trust you completely and be attracted to you in that way. Trust is earned and takes time and you must prove yourself. Just as I must prove myself trustworthy to you. So please be respectful.

I am seriously seeking those who want  to have an ongoing relationship. That may include sex at some point, but first we must mesh within an SM context. You must be able to make me fly though giving of stingly pain and domination, a bit of fear is also good. I hope that the power exchange we have will be what you need and that I bring out the Sadist in you.

Wanna know me? Start a CONVERSATION. Tell me something that will pique my interest in you and make me want to talk to you.

The ball is in your court now.

4/26/2009 4:09:01 AM
Updated my profile again :)

4/18/2009 4:04:41 AM
I know many feel this way, but I have to say that I am tired of all the jerks on here. So many who want to get their rocks off and have no consideration for anyone but themselves (if that).

Do you think that if you spam enough of us you will get some positive feedback? I really hope that no woman feels that desparate.

I have been very clear about what I seek and what I will not deal with. Though one has to read what I say to actually know that... What a dolt I am for thinking that people would care about what i have to say. I bet most won't ever read this either. And if they do, they will pass it off as bitchy and not sub-like. Oh well. I really don't care.

I am happy with who I am, just wish there were more than a handful of folk who felt the same and acted curtiously. Being nice and respectful does not make you a bad dom. It is a turn on to get a respectful, well thought-out message. I will not respond to those who can't be bothered to read my profile or be respectful in approaching me.

I've had enough jerks for two lifetimes.

End of rant.

4/13/2009 12:25:14 AM
BDSM is not about sex. The two may be incorporated with one another in the right circumstances, but they are two different creatures. For those who understand this and subscribe to this point of view, I invite you to read my full profile and maybe we have other things in common too. You never know...

4/12/2009 11:55:39 PM
For those of you interested in knowing more about me, I have updated my profile. I realize that many will not take the time to read it, but for the chosen few who really want to learn about me, I hope you enjoy the updates.

-Raine

4/5/2009 10:47:12 AM
I implore you all to *read*and *take in* what is in my profile.

When I state that I do not do long distance relationships, then get messages from around the world asking me to move and be owned *without so much as a "Hi, my name is..." I am BEYOND disinterested.

I have taken time to be clear about my desires and limits and I am looking for those who know themselves well enough to do the same. I also want you all to realize, that first and foremost, I am a human being, not a piece of meat. If you are interested in getting to know ME, then I may be interested in getting to know YOU. But I do not have ANY interest in beign used .

Thank you for reading my full profile and this means the journal entries too.

Raine

3/31/2009 1:35:17 PM
Hello again all, 
I'd like to say to those of you who insist on not filling out even a small portion of your profile, giving others an idea of who you are and what you seek, that it is a waste of time to message those of us who are putting ourselves out there. Also, one to three word messages, especially without any info in your profile, are strange at best. If you were at a social gathering it might be alright to just say "Hi", but in a message it leaves much to be desired and too much time to decipher what you you want from the party you chose to message. Please think about what kind of response you are looking for, and how you would respond with such little information.

Thank you all,
Raine

3/26/2009 3:48:38 AM
This has been an interesting year. I have not had nearly enough play. It's hard to find compatable men out there. I am hoping to find those who enjoy public play and know who they are. Those willing to get to know me, not just judging the book by it's cover. 

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 Age: 39
 Columbus, Ohio