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PLEASE SEND ME A MESSAGE FIRST EXPLAINING WHY YOU SENT ME SAID FRIEND REQUEST BEFORE I EVEN ACCEPT OR RECEIVE YOUR FRIEND REQUESTS! Thank you for understanding.
"Art should comfort the Disturbed and disturb the comfortable." - Unknown quote
Slavery is not about suffering / slavery is about service.
Slavery is not about humiliation / slavery is about humility.
Slavery is not about pain / slavery is about being present.
Slavery is not about being used / slavery is about being of use.
Slavery is not about control / slavery is about letting go.
Slavery is not about your desires / slavery is about giving to others.
Slavery is not about abuse / slavery is about acceptance.
Slavery is not about proving anything / slavery is about being real.
Slavery is not about contempt / slavery is about respect.
Slavery is not about how you look / slavery is about the size of your heart.
Slavery is not about denying Y/yourself / slavery is about being open.
Well, let's see... where to begin? Hi, I'm Rain, a 27 year old Trans woman currently residing in the Pacific Northwest. I'm a masochist/submissive with painslut tendencies with a variety of roles such as pain pig, whore, slut, rubber doll, hucow, kitty, puppy girl, pony girl, fuck toy, fuckhole, toilet slut, and medical asylum patient whore when doing medical bondage/fetish play sessions. I also have a Sadistic yet nurturing/loving/compassionate Dominant side of me that occasionally plays with other submissives/masochists/rope sluts/bondage whores/bottom play partners/Switch partners, etc., but only with those I'm very comfortable dominating or topping or playing with. I've been in the lifestyle nearly 10 years and counting, most of my adult life as of late, and I've learned a lot through trials and errors and mistakes to find myself and discover who I am today.
BDSM to me, is considered an art form, a spiritual, psychological/emotional, physical, sensual and sexual journey, whereas you grow and evolve and find yourselves and awaken your minds, hearts, bodies and souls to the possibilities, awakening our senses, desires, and the insatiable appetite for kinky art that can be created in a cathartic and healing way. BDSM is beautiful, healthy, fun and exciting and amazingly enough, one that is able to help us grow into who we want to be.
Also, I set all my personal photos of me (fetish, nude or otherwise) to friends only/private for privacy reasons, so if you wanna know what I actually look like, just simply PM me with a decent introductory message of why you want to be my friend(s) and send a friend request afterwards. Otherwise, don't bother if you're just someone who thinks he or she can get their way with me by thinking I'm just a slut toy to play with. BDSM, as I previously mentioned before, is a lifestyle, not a hobby to me. Deal with it. Also, any personal writings of mine will also be set to private/friends only. Sorry, folks.
I'm a Trans woman/genderqueer, so my gender pronouns are she/her/hers and they/them/their/theirs. I'm 5'11", a bit of a BBW, and been on HRT nearly a full decade and an half now. I'm a hard worker outside of M/my BDSM lifestyle path, being a musician, artist, poet/writer, activist, volunteer worker with several different organizations working mostly with domestic violence survivors and homeless LGBTIQQA youth and Transgender teens as a peer counselor. I run several different businesses, have my own solo project, and am a hobbyist kink photographer/filmmaker expanding into the BDSM adult entertainment industry to focus on queer porn, queer bondage, fetish art, rope bondage porn, sadomasochistic bondage and bondage therapy, as well transgender bondage, girl on girl bondage, and genderqueer/gender-variant bondage, and many other fetishes. I am welcoming of all genders, sexual orientations, all body shapes and sizes and heights, all disabilities and all walks of life.
I'm a Pagan/Agnostic, and I'm very creative, down to earth, a clean freak (due to my professional experiences as a hotel housekeeping maid in my last job), quiet, introverted, shy, mellow, laid-back, open minded and very articulate and honest. I don't do drama, nor I intend on doing so, so if you have drama, please go the other direction and not cross paths with me. To me, BDSM is NOT a hobby, like most of you act like it is in this day and age. To me, it's not only a lifestyle path I chose to live through, but a spiritual, physical, sexual, sensual, psychological, emotional and occasionally metaphysical journey to find out the answers to many of the universal questions we often ask about our lives, but also to learn more about who we truly are as we uncage our humanity to find ourselves along the way. So to those fakers, flakes, wannabes, etc., if you cross paths with me online or in real life at a event, class, play party, workshop, etc., I am not a "sexualized fetish", nor am I a toy or piece of meat to fuck, play and torment with. I'm a human being with feelings, compassionate empathy, a beautiful mind, a body that I decide when to submit ONLY ON MY TERMS, NOT YOURS, and a huge heart that cares. So if you have actual lifestyle interests similar as mine, send me a message. If you don't, but pretend that you do, please note I can tell when you're lying and will block you immediately.
Namaste,
Rain.
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Transgender Masochistic Submissive Seeking A Sadistic Yet Compassionate Mistress (Pacific Northwest/West Coast/Mountain/Midwest Areas) - WA, OR, CA, MT, CO, NM, NV, IL, OK, WI, MN and/or IA.
Hello, one and all. Allow me to introduce myself, I am Rain, 27 years old, currently residing in the Pacific Northwest, but often traveling due to my line of work through the aforementioned areas in this post, which is why I am seeking in those states until I have found what I am looking for. Whilst I identify as genderqueer, it is due to the fact that I'm saving up to finalize my transition via certain types of surgeries, such as the FFS, breast implants, the orchiectomy, laser hair removal, etc., so that I will no longer identify as genderqueer but finally full-time and "socially acceptable" to society's standards of what constitutes as "passable trans women" nowadays (I still honestly believe that to be bollocks, given that all transgender men AND women are acceptable in all body shapes, sizes, heights, appearances, backgrounds, races, etc.)
What I'm seeking at this time are sadistically playful yet compassionate and warm-hearted female and transgender play partners (Switch partners are welcome too.) I'm open to submitting and playing with cisgender women, as well genderqueer/FtMs. The age limit is 18 and older, and the max age is 65. I may be identified as a masochist/submissive, but I do have feelings and thoughts, and a heart, mind and soul and a body that is to be treated with respect and compassion. I'm not some toy or piece of meat; I matter too.
Here's a list of my Ideal Mistress:
* I am seeking someone special. I love a Dominant woman who believes that bondage therapy play is cathartic and healthy, fun, healing, and always is in a safe, sane and consensual environment. I want to explore all of the possibilities with her, sometimes pushing our limits, to build me up after breaking me down in the objectification/dehumanizing process of turning me into a beautiful and empowered woman, a strong and independent type of submissive after ending up as a blank clean slate, awaiting to be etched anew, who can not only be empowered by her Mistress, but allowing me to empower her as well.
* I would like to offer my Mistress my nonsexual service oriented submission, whereas I can assist her with day to day life needs, such as appointments, driving her around, errands, grocery shopping, scheduling events/workshops/play parties, etc., if she runs a dungeon or a BDSM lifestyle educational community space, and of course, helping with preparing meals and snacks, even provide hugs and cuddles and kisses when my Mistress is experiencing "Dom/Domme Drop", being emotionally drained from play/slave training. Even Mistresses need love and aftercare, folks. *(P.S., sexual slavery, like penetrating, fisting, forced orgasms, etc., is not required, but not necessary either. It can be a once in a while thingy, or just used for rewards or punishment with love, compassion and a firm but caring hand).* Also, she would be the type of Mistress who is supportive of my dreams, aspirations, goals, plans, etc. for my future and my life.
* I'm looking for someone who is Transgender inclusive and able to accept me as I am, and help me be independent. I want to grow beautifully and be a strong woman. My Mistress's Gender orientation is not a factor and her/their gender identity might be a CD/TV, a Trans woman (of any status), cisgender, or a genderqueer person and non binary. I accept many genders, but I strictly am comfortable with this role. I seek someone that has longtime experience in the BDSM lifestyle, positive lifestyle references and recommendations, is well represented in the BDSM lifestyle community or the BDSM adult entertainment industry, whatever her profession be, even as a Pro Domme. The woman I hope to share my life will find the beauty in me, as I will find beauty in her. Physical appearance isn't important, inside is where we are beautiful.
* My ideal Mistress may be of any body, shape or size and I embrace all races/nationalities/disabilities, etc. Height, weight, hair color, eye color, etc., do not matter to me. I prefer partners my age and up.
* I like a Dominant woman who is knowledgeable about different fetishes, lifestyle roles, and of course, respectful of my limits, health concerns, boundaries, safe words, etc. She may be playfully sadistic but will be caring/compassionate in a SSC/RACK friendly dynamic.
* Any potential Mistress who is a clean freak will be pleased to learn about my work experience managing hotel staff. Meticulous, spotless, and immaculate are words that come to mind when looking at spaces that we share.
That is my ideal Mistress, one I hope to find out to finally be able to spend the rest of my life with her someday and be hers forever, and someday collared by her.
In the long run, once I've found the Mistress of my dreams, I plan on being in a Poly long-term relationship with her someday, complete with a secondary slave, maybe a few more masochists/slaves as well with different duties and roles of their owns in our household complete with a large house, white picket fence, a ranch (for pony play/pony training purposes), a dungeon, and a variety of themed play rooms, such as the medical asylum room, the isolation padded cell, the punishment room, etc., and become a full-time slave. My ideal Mistress is to be sadistic, but compassionate, smart, open minded, supportive of my role as a Transgender woman/genderqueer woman, respectful of my limits/boundaries and health concerns, supportive and empowering me in all my aspirations, goals, plans for my future, my ventures, projects and so forth. I also want said Mistress to be someone who supports the idea of bondage therapy, a cathartic and healing journey to modify my personality, behavior, my way of life, etc., through intense and positive slave training, breaking me down to a blank clean slate only to rebuild myself, becoming more empowered and etched anew into a better, healthier, stronger and beautiful person. But slavery is NOT a one way street to me; Mistresses deserve love too! I want to be the type of slave that embraces many positions and roles in the household, to be able to fully communicate with such openness and honesty, to not only become empowered through what I endure in my my trials and tribulations as a slave in training, but to empower my Mistress as well through errands and appointments she tend to, needing help with chores and to feel loved as well.
If this sounds like you, feel free to PM me on FetLife
(just click on the highlighted underscored link that says FetLife on this post) or here on CollarSpace and see where we go from there. I'm interested in what you and I have to share with one another, and hopefully finding ourselves in the journey to the ultimate sadomasochistic enlightenment someday, to the point whereas I am a complete person mentally, emotionally, sexually, sensually, and spiritually as a future collared slave in love and bound forever, hogtied to your heart.
Namaste,
Rain.
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