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| **UPDATE**
I am now exclusively dating a potential match, and so am no longer seeking additional romantic involvement. I am, however, eagerly still seeking kinky friends. Previously BDSM has been a private affair for me, but lately I have experienced an increased desire to be social and to find friends with whom I can be more openly myself. Feel absolutely free to send me friend requests or friendly messages.
I am a Dominant straight male living in Sacramento, CA. I have an excellent, highly paid job, a downtown apartment, and generally a great life. I'm sarcastic, enjoy intelligent discussions (and full debates) on politics, ethics, science and religion. Everyone likes movies and music; I also enjoy reading, both fiction and nonfiction.
I am also a sexual sadist. Let's forgo the cliche pontification on Dominance here. I know how to be both Dominant and a human being - I have some extreme desires for a potential match, but there will always be laughter and smiles in my home, if not necessarily in the middle of a whipping. Well...I would probably be smiling. And sometimes laughing. The point is, despite describing myself as a sadist and wanting complete control over a willing slave, I also genuinely care about ensuring that my partners feel just as fulfilled as I do in the lifestyle. Not every hour of every day should look like an Insex video...even if there might be some subtle restraints involved. I enjoy causing pain...but how much depends on my submissive. I don't get off directly on the pain - rather, I am excited by the control, the fear, and the absolute surrender that pain play involves - nothing is more intimate than making a girl suffer for me and give me her tears. In some cases that will mean some pretty heavy shit...and with others it can be merely a moderate spanking or some nipple clamps. I don't do extreme for extreme's sake - I merely seek the total control and fearful submission of a beautiful woman. The best things in life for me can be as simple as my hand, firmly but gently around a girl's throat as she looks pleading into my eyes. Or after a period of teasing orgasm denial, forcing multiple rapid orgasms until my slave turns into a mindless, spasming, grunting animal completely consumed by cumming.
I am looking for a full 24/7 live-in slave. I am looking for property, not vanilla love - the devoted service of a slave and my power over her are stronger than that (though it is possible for that level of connection to overlap with love). I am not looking for a spouse. I am not looking for a roommate who serves me when she's home either - my ideal slave is one who is kept at home, does not work and accepts my control over her entire life and body in all aspects. I can easily support a slave financially, and would prefer that sort of "50s household" lifestyle. I want a slave who would feel fulfilled and happy in this type of full service enslavement, but I also want her to happily join me out in public as my lovely trophy and obedient companion. I want her to desire to please me, and for her service I want to reward her with words, actions, and gifts. I am a decent and nice man, even as I am a strong, Dominant sadist; the two are not mutually exclusive. I'm absolutely sane in my sadistic desires - I don't do permanent damage, though for the right girl some body modification (piercings, branding, tattoos) are a possibility. Regardless of my own desires I always respect limits even as I may challenge them from time to time.
I understand that a 24/7 M/s dynamic is too extreme for some, but Ive reached the point where dalliances and play partners and bedroom D/s simply don't work any more. I am not into vanilla anything. I have been actively practicing BDSM for 16 years (yes, I started dominating and torturing girls as a teenager; no, I do not think this makes me some all-knowing kink god, I merely got an early start on realizing who and what I am). I am experienced and safe...meaning I realize my own limitations in skill and knowledge and will not attempt to use skills I do not have recklessly.
I am not here for cyber. Other than a possible ID verification, I will not ask for more pictures or for a cam session. I do not want a long distance slave - I am looking for the real thing.
If a strong connection is made, I can arrange for relocation of my future slave as long as she is currently within the US. However, as I view this as a long term commitment, I have no intention of rushing into things - and considering that a potential slave's safety is on the line, I don't want her to want to rush either.
I don't care about race. I do prefer short women, but since I am 6'6", that's not generally difficult. If this sounds like the form of slavery you crave, contact me. I am real and looking for real responses only.
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