the House of Rafe

"SILENTIUM PER CASTRENSIS"

Special thanks goes out to my friends and family that helped me and guided me toward a perfection within myself.

"Silentium per Castrensis"
The Chosen motto for the House of Rafe is written in Latin, meaning, Perfection through Discipline. I have chosen this motto and the language in which it is written for a couple of reasons. It holds for me a much deeper meaning that I believe helps express a deeper part of this house and what it stands for.

Latin’s heritage has been passed down through many broad genres: Inscriptions, Literature, Scientific and Legal terms in modern languages, and a centuries-long tradition of Classical Education. The Language itself has been considered a “dead Language”. To forget our history is to forsake our future.

The House of Rafe believes very much in the study of our lifestyle’s history, Making Latin, a most fitting language to define the House of Rafe, its beliefs and what it stands for.

Perfection: the highest degree of proficiency, skill, or excellence, as in some art. No other word could have been chosen to represent this house and its family. The House of Rafe strives to help others to better understand and accept themselves and others. It also seeks to help others find their own paths and better themselves, while also aiming to direct and to guide them toward fulfilling their own desires.

Discipline: to bring to a state of order and obedience by training and control. We strive to help members of The House of Rafe, gain a better understanding of who they are and where they are going through a degree of self-control. Discipline helps those in times of high stress remain calm, cool, and collect. Discipline brings a greater degree of order to things. Discipline will not be withheld from those who have made infractions or misbehaved. Members of the house will maintain a high level of discipline. They are a direct reflection of the house’s standards and values. Members will always strive to bring honor and respect to the House of Rafe.
Perfection through discipline.


First things first... Anyone who believes that they are "leather" or "old Guard" because they have just read a book, or studied a few excerpts online, should be ashamed of them selves.
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WHO I AM
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First and foremost; I am one who cares greatly for those whom I call family, friend, and for those within My Home.

Secondly; I am one who believes completely in PROTOCOL, and in RESPECT.

Thirdly; I believe very much in this lifestyle. It's Ideals and Teachings are becoming a part of me and who I am inside. I am doing my very best to uphold and practice what I have learned and am quite anxious to learn more.

Finally, but not any less in importance; I am NOT a friend collector. I Will NOT befriend ANYONE whom I have not met or have not talked with. If you wish to get to know me and become MY friend online, please take the time to follow the format detailed below.
THANK YOU,
and good luck in finding whom and what you are looking for on here.

One question, one chance, one honest answer. You can ask me one question (TO MY INBOX ONLY!). Any question, anything, no matter how crazy, dirty or wrong it is. No catch.

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IN THE LIFESTYLE
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I am a Dominant. I am very young as far as experience and knowledge in this lifestyle goes and still have a great deal to learn. But, one is never done learning are they? I am very much interested in a wide variety of kinks, However the ultimate idea of MS is intriguing to me most of all.the meaning of the collar and the complete control and surrender of one's life is truly an amazing and beautiful thing. The high protocol and teachings of the leather community also interest me greatly.
I am someone who CAN be quite loving... lol but, I am very much a "sadist". I love seeing that face when you are pushing the limits of another. I love feeling the shutter in a woman's body as I draw my nails softly over her recently raised and red skin... I love all different kinds of toys but here are a few of my favorites. (and not necessarily in any specific order)
Gags, chains, Whips, Floggers, Cuffs, Leather, Rope, Wax, Needles, Electricity, rabbits fur, Hitachi vibrator, and many others.
I have bottomed a few times and will only do it for a select few. However, as a bottom I love Queening. There is just something about pleasuring a woman down below that gets me all hot and bothered, lol. I prefer a toy with a sting over one with a thud. I Love seeing tears. Not the sobbing and shaking kind... but the ones that trickle down as she stands there strong. I love mentally strong women that know even though they may be receiving the beating of their life that they are loved more than anything else in the world and will walk away even stronger than they were before.

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OUTSIDE THE LIFESTYLE
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I am currentIly a full time student @ RMCAD
I am a man of many talents. I am an Artist, Drummer, Electronic Music, Composer, and a bit of a clown....

I have a somewhat lower than average attention span and a great sense of humor. I will do anything to make people laugh, even if it's at my expense... I do have a little, tiny, micro, nano, complex about being short... lol
It sucks... I could be a god and still have to look up at people and yell...
"HEY! Get your ass down here so I am not yelling at your naval!"
apart from that little, tiny, minute, deficiency all is good.

I served 5 years 16 weeks in the ARMY under active service as an INFANTRYMAN. I have spent 15 months in the sand box and walked away with a little more physical damage than I wanted to... (no worries I still have all 7 fingers)

As an Artist, I have tampered with many different mediums to include photography, painting, pen & Ink, pencils, computer graphic design, and few others. I do tattoo designs, comic characters, avatars, photo manipulation, photo touch up, and write on occasion.
I love drawing and perhaps that was my downfall in school. 8's became snowman far too early for me to have succeeded in anything mathematically. lol.
Loved geometry though.

As a Drummer, I have been playing for over 6 years now. I was in a band during my High School days playing Heavy Metal. Then after joining the service I found a few great guys who also had a love for music and we started a 3 man Blues/Hard Rock group. It was a great deal of fun and a fantastic way to help us and others forget the hardships of military life for a while. I honestly cherish that more than anything else during my time in service.
At this time I have no one to play music with and I am reduced to turning on my MP3 player and playing covers... It's growing old very quickly... lol

As a Electronic Composer, I have created many song varying greatly as far as genre. I started out with simple Techno, making Hip Hop and Break-Beat music for a few buddies who rapped. Then got into Deep and Progressive Trance, and House music. Then started making Drum & Bass. And now not only do I still make all of those listed above on occasion, But I have found my true love for Electronica in a newer style called HARDSTYLE... It is by far one of the most hard driving, heart pounding styles I have ever heard...
Although I am not anywhere close to being good at it, I have also started dipping into DUBSTEP... A much more underground style that can either turn out really good... or really, really awful. lol
If you wish to check out any of my music or want me to make something for you.. shoot me a message.
I want to thank those of you who took the time to read this and as always wish you the best in your searches for whom and what you are looking for here...

Sincerely,

RAFE

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CONTACT FORMAT
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Hello, my name is__________,

( I am not asking you to give your real name right off the bat, just what you would like to be called.)
Brief introduction on who you are
What your reason for contact is
Should you have any requests
and any closing comments you wish to add
signed ___________ |




My personal interests as far as the lifestyle is concerned do vary. although there are many things I enjoy, I am open to trying new things.

My Ideal Person: