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| Phew.. ok - so I got quite a response from registering - I'm flattered but there was literally no way I could reply to everyone, so don't take offence if I didn't.
I'm 29, from Berkshire, and I am probably considered to be a normal type of girl. I consider myself pretty average in most of the important ways - I'm average looking, average build, average intelligence, so I hope no-one will be expecting a beautiful genius.
About the Vanilla Me
I enjoy my life, though as usual there's things I'd change or seek to improve - I'm a bit limited with my home situation owing to a few problems financially, but I have good friends and interests (I play hockey to a pretty good level, and enjoy dancing).
It's all a bit new for me to be advertising on a site like this as I am sure you can understand, and I'm in a position where discretion is rather important to me. Despite this, I decided to take the plunge and be brave and reveal myself in this limited way to the world.
I'm a caring, compassionate, friendly kind of person.
About the BDSM-ey Me
I'm a semi-experienced submissive I guess you could say. I find that my mindset changes totally when I'm engaging in bdsm - and it's actually a really powerful and calming influence on me, although that probably doesn't make much sense on the surface.
The main things I've engaged in have really been quite mild on the scale of things - humiliation has always been a big thing for me, and I find the internal conflict it creates interesting and exciting - it seems to tap into a hidden part of me.
I'm less experienced with straightforward bondage, and pain, though I have (probably like most submissives) experienced spanking and elements of cp.
Have a look at my list of things for a bit more background into my "kinky side" though it doesn't really allow me to say what I've done against what I'd be interested in trying if it felt right.
What I'm Looking For
I guess I'm here primarily to explore and to find people on the same wavelength. I don't promise anything further, though I think if things went well, I could see myself meeting up with someone. I'm very open to older men.
What I'm Not Looking For
Couples, Dommes, anyone overseas (e.g. not in the UK), people who are heavily into rubber (allergic), leather (vegetarian!), or super-intricate bondage. I'm also not looking for anyone under my age (29) or in a huge rush to meet.
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For the benefit of fellow subs, here's some hard-learned warning signs when you're first approached by a man professing to be dominant:
- Spells "Dominant" incorrectly
- Refers to you as a "slut" on a first chat
- Asks what turns you on within 2 minutes of chatting
- Asks about meeting within 2 minutes of chatting
- No profile at all beyond basic information
- Appears to be typing with one hand
- Says "I'll try anything once"
Looking around, there's a lot of frustration and anger on this site from guys fed up with fake female profiles.
We also face our own challenges.
Whilst we don't tend to get kids or other women pretending to be hot Dom guys, we do get voyeurs, pretenders, dilettantes, "players", or people who just plain lie about themselves.
It's no less frustrating. |
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I seem to create a lot of rules and criteria for people contacting me already, but I think the latest ones are kind of important.
I would ask that:
If you do contact me, I am always on a keyboard, not on a mobile device. That means if you're using a mobile or a tablet or anything like that, the conversation is going to be very odd and stilted. I'd prefer to chat to someone who can respond in kind - words are important to me, as are spelling and grammar.
I've lost count of the times I've chatted to people via Yahoo and ended up something like this:
Me: Hi there, thanks for your message on CM. How are you?
Them: K thx not 2bad what r u in2?
Or...
Me: Hello, how are you?
Them: Fine, and you?
Me: Oh not too bad, just been working - had to go to the supermarket and get some bread, the queues were enormous. Don't know why I bothered! But anyway.
..... 4minutes pass ......
Them: Yes spermarkets are a pain.
Neither are my idea of getting to know someone. Also, first impressions count, and if I sense I'm being chatted to whilst something more important is going on then I pretty quickly lose any interest.
Please note that this isn't a diatribe against technology. It's a wonderful thing, but I suppose I am just old-fashioned.
Also, the chat function on CM is rubbish. I can't use it properly, it locks my computer and people think I've just bailed on them. I hereby will not be using it anymore!
I'm sure I'll find some more stuff to moan about soon enough, so stand by! |
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