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I have been kinky all my life, spanking and tying girls for almost 30 years. I sought out the local BDSM community in 2005 to learn more technique. At that time I had no concept of the D/s dynamic or that I would like to pursue one. At this point the why is of more interest to me than the how -- though I do want to become proficient in rope bondage. I am dominant by nature, a leader but I also know how to follow. Professionally I am an attorney with my own practice. I am scene friendly and people oriented. I am a reaction junkie, I don’t really like to administer pain, I administer sensation. If that happens to involve pain so be it but I probably won’t satisfy a pain slut or masochist. I have a sadistic side that comes out at certain times and particular situations. Percussive play doesn't really do it for me but nipples beware and the mind is my favorite place to play. I’m more interested in what’s going on in the subject’s head than what is happening to her body. Of course, what's happening in her head can be affected by what's happening to her body at the moment. Women tell me that they appreciate my creativity so I’ll go with that. I have a life outside of BDSM that includes, cooking, skiing, hiking, biking, kayaking, travel, economics, art, photography, music, gardening, fishing and the list could go on. I enjoy intelligent conversation and seek out like minded people for my friends. At this time I am single and dating. I am active in the LI and NYC BDSM scene and looking for a long term D/s relationship with a submissive female. I’m also looking for a rope bunny or rope slut to practice on.