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* In the Scene from 2001. Interested since late '80s.
* Have been a member of the original LRA and Tina's.
* Been to one Shibaricon Stag, Honeymooned with My pet in 2008.
* One Munch group (**&** YahooGroups) disintegrated, didn't much care for the other(s).
* Fell out of the more "Political" Scene; became self-contained and very "Private".

Married over 5 years. She's a great domestic partner but does not possess the Lifestyle "natures" that I need. Can't be said simpler; I'm not going to get involved in dissing on her & criticizing everything she's not. I will say what I seek.

It's been agreed, that I should look externally, for someone who shares my lifestyle interests. I seek a Play-Partner/sub/slave, preferably of the slave mentality, with hunger & enthusiasm for submitting and surrendering her will to Someone she trusts.

I am more agreeable to RACK, than to SSC - Risk-Aware-Consensual-Kink. I'm all about "safe" and I don't tend to tread into dangerous territory. But what I prefer is Consensual Non-consensuality (you "write a blank check" and I run the show). As such, I'm not really keen on safewords. For example, you don't get to call-off a punishment because you've "had enough". I take my responsibility not to harm very seriously and My sub/slave's well-being is My duty and My business. hers is to trust Me with her entire being (which takes time, of course).

I do like to play on the edge and prefer that my counterpart be as "into" WIITWD, as I. I don't like to push my will on an uninterested participant. I love Psychology, Mindfuck and Hypnosis. I want your mind. I want someone who craves to surrender her mind, body and control - one who shares a Spiritual sense of D/s - craves to explore the mind, sensuality and pursue her bliss.

This is where I believe I'd like to get and would be interested in corresponding with anyone interested in working toward that direction.

Ok, first draft; I'll take a step back and look at it with fresh eyes.
ZeWidowKouture
 
 Age: 24
 Norton, Ohio