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| Hi! I don't know quite what to write here, as I'm *clearly* new to this site, but I shall muddle through to the best of my ability.
I'm a 30 year old female who's attempting to learn the lifestyle. I would love to be able to pick the brain of anyone who's willing to answer questions, and to make friends. I feel as if I'm too new to the lifestyle to be looking for anything serious, but hopefully that will come in time.
Discretion is a huge deal for me, so I will never post pictures of myself here. With that said: I am real, I am female, and I wouldn't mind sharing pictures if trust were established.
Right now I'm in management, and I absolutely ADORE my job. I work odd hours, with the majority of my time spent at work on weekends, but I still find time to socialize. When I'm not socializing, I'm playing my favorite game in all of the world: soccer. I LOVE soccer; I love playing it, I love watching it, I love talking about it. I am not in a relationship with anyone currently.
I find that as I've grown more comfortable with myself, I've slowly but surely realized that kink gets me off. I was initially rather shocked with the intensity that I was drawn towards being a submissive; in my every day life I'm an outgoing, gregarious, easy-going, yet still dominant female who manages mostly men. And I'm good at it.
As I began thinking more and more about it, it began to make sense (perhaps only to me, but that's okay too!): At work I *HAVE* to be assertive, in control, and strong-willed. I *HAVE* to be dominant, take care of my people, make decisions, and lead authoritatively. To be able to let all of that go, trusting that someone will be strong and smart enough to handle anything that might happen.. I find that incredibly sexy.
I can safely say that humiliation (public or otherwise) is not something that I find intriguing, and while I don't mind a little pain, I am not a hardcore masochist. I find my interests leaning more towards D/s and B&D.
So, I've been reading voraciously. I still have a lot more to learn, clearly, but I feel like creating a profile here is a step in a positive direction for me.
So, if you wouldn't mind my picking your brain, or if you have kind advice for a newbie, please feel free to message me!
Cheers!
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