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Please keep your hands and feet inside the profile at all times. Thank you. For privacy reasons, I'm doing the "photos available upon request" thing.
"The lions are out of their cages, and you may well find they eat the mouthy Christians first."

I've been obsessed with the perverse since I hit my teens. Humiliation, domination, ass play, watersports, bondage, torture, anything dark intrigued me. I love the ability to control someone, love the trust that is granted when they give themselves to you fully.

After living in the home of Shibari bondage in a society presenting an incredible double-life when it comes to sex and BDSM - it is everywhere yet so rarely talked about - I decided to explore this part of me.

I've had a fair amount of experience with this. The photos you see here are myself and former slave (I've had others I just like those photos). That doesn't mean, however, that I'm the penultimate dom, or anything close to it. There are miles and miles left in this journey.

So here I am. Anyone can feel free to drop me a line. I'm open to just about anything. Ciao!

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3/11/2011 8:58:10 AM

It's been a while since I updated this so here goes: I'm all for new subs, I don't mind training, love meeting new people, etc. However if all you can manage is a few fragmented sentences, you haven't filled out any interests on your profile, and you're incapable of answering the most basic of questions about what it is you want or what you hope to get from the lifestyle - please, stop wasting people's time. There are enough fakes and trolls on CollarMe as it is. 

 

Also - how you carry yourself in conversation says a lot about your personality, and frankly, potential. Arrogance, ignorance, bad grammar - I can forgive the last one a little if you're typing on a smart phone/iPod, but at least make an effort to come off as intelligent.

 

Btw I know I said subs, but I'm sure this applies to Doms as well.

 

Oh, and if your profile photo is an obvious glamour shot from a porn site - what's the point? Who do you think you're fooling?


8/22/2009 10:56:34 AM
Went to the Church St. Fetish Fair last weekend - quite interesting. I never have enough money for the toys I want...

In non-kink related news, I managed to catch two amazing concerts this summer: Nine Inch Nails and Pearl Jam. I'm still annoyed at missing Tool, but not as much now.

These brief thoughts were brought to you by the letters B-O-R-E-D-O-M ;)

7/10/2009 9:00:16 AM
Collarme is quickly becoming more and more of a spam site... no, I'm not interested in checking out your website. No, I'm not interested in sending you money so that you can "escape" the "peril" you're in, or because you have a small fortune in gold bars that need to be flown out of the country.

Where did all the real people go?

7/7/2007 9:04:03 AM
When did BDSM become trendy? Should I be encouraged by the fact that society is becoming more open to it or worried that like any trend it will eventually sour and be ridiculed? Example, while I love fetish-wear, simply dressing up in a bondage outfit for a night out at the clubs is basically just about image and hopping on the bandwagon.

I actually never dress for show and would rather someone be natural (and by that I don't necessarily mean nude).

Damn I didn't mean this journal to sound so negative.

I have a few part-time slaves online but still can't seem to find local people. I seem to attract vanilla types IRL. Must be the split personality ;)

1/20/2007 9:24:58 AM
A journal - what a concept. I suppose keeping one could be interesting; whether or not I have the motivation to keep it updated is another matter entirely.

I've been on this site for a few months now so I suppose this entry should be a simple observation: there are a large number of users about who are here only to find the "ideal toy," or to fill a hole in their existence. The latter is forgiveable, although I think it's dangerous to pursue a relationship based upon it; it leads to rushing in. The former is inexcusable - BDSM sites like this one are not meat markets for the kinky.

I'm thinking in particular of a profile I came across recently that was but one line in length: "I'm looking for some one-night stands." There endeth the profile. The few interests that were listed had almost nothing to do with BDSM. This is a girl for whom things are going to end badly.

I'm also thinking of the "doms" who follow this pattern: I've been dominant for ## years. Lets chat on MSN. Do you have cam? Go on cam. Take off your shirt.

Riiight. Good luck pal. You're not a dom. You simply want a toy. A dom's role is to earn trust, keep their sub/slave safe, satisfied, and happy. In return, they give you themselves in full.

It's not seeing titties on a webcam.

Not that I have anything against cams - starting online and moving slowly is fine, and cams are a great tool - if the trust part is there.

This is more of a rant than a journal entry, so I think I'll stop while I'm on a roll.

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queenkitty34
 
 Age: 23
 LA, California