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Hello to all. I am an Anglo-American citizen currently residing in BudapestLondon (study in one, live in the other), though I travel a lot and would be willing to relocate anywhere in Europe or America as I have the necessary rights to do so.
I am looking to serve a couple in a domestic submissive role. I am not entirely focusing my search on a couple but I would like very much like it, if my presence in a home helped a relationship, or relived the burdens of housework to someone who enjoyed doing them. Another advantage I see with serving a couple is that they already have sex going on between them, they do not need a third addition to their sex life. That is not to say that Im asexual, and if I were invited into the bedroom of a couple, male dom, femdom etc I wouldnt hesitate to comply. It is just that 99 percent of a slaves job isnt sex. And yet many Doms on here as well as most of the slaves and subs think it is. So this profile (I know) is only going to attract a small section of the people on here.
Before I move into a home, whether it be a couples home, a poly home, a mistresss home... I will need a lot of verification that it is safe. I hope the same is asked of me, especially if there are children in the home. Just to be clear so as not to string anybody along, it will take at least 6 months for me to move in at the point of contact. I am currently doing a programming course, where once completed I can work from anywhere (and support myself) with an internet connection.
What I am looking for is guidance, discipline and love. Love doesnt have to sexual nor does have to interfere with the love you already have for your children or spouse, there are different kinds of love. I am saying this because a lot of Doms state on their profiles that a slave will find no love with them and will be treated with contempt and abuse. And I dont think they are referring to play which is both sad and scary. Then again some Doms I can see are afraid of the parasites that are the subs and slaves who worm themselves into a household and try top from the bottom or who are looking to a non poly household poly. Yeah not cool. There are already many poly profiles on CS already.
Any relationship I enter into... I am going to, have to have contact with the outside world and if that contact is broken, law enforcement will be called. Several people who I trust will know, where I am going and for what purpose. I have heard the countless stories of abuse in the BDSM community and I will take the necessary steps to prevent myself from becoming a victim of abuse.
The paragraphs are probably in the wrong order, alas. The normal limits apply to me, nothing illegal, no permeant damage or marks. No needle play, blood play, cannot see myself do scat either. Everything as can be discussed. And also no breath play.
Needless to say that while having a slave to serve you must be a joyous feeling, a level of responsibility is involved.
REEDREED... No hidden meaning. Will send photos if asked of me or pre-stated in profile
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First Journal entry.
A slight update, since creating this account, I am 27. We all know it can take ages to change any details on a CS profile. I'm also slightly heavier in weight, side effect of isolating during Covid. I had mild asthma during childhood, and occasionally still have flair ups so better safe than sorry. I am actually on target to lose the weight I have gained, so no need to change my profile, then wait x amount of time for it to be approved and then have to change it again in about a month's time.
If you message please do not address me as sub or slave. I am not either of those things, to you or to anybody else unless I enter into a written or verbal agreement with a chosen party. Also don't expect me to address you as sir or master (also goddess, mistress et cetera) . If you state in your profile that you want to be messaged, with a certain title, I probably will not message you. The only exception is if you have that title in your CS username, because I message people by saying Hello and then using their username. If you want to message me, just write Hello REEDREED or just Hello.
A lot of Doms on CS will often write how they hate one line messages and then will send me out a one line message. "do unto others what others do unto you", remember before an agreement is signed we are all equals. A lot of Doms appear to be truly in la la land, when I read their profiles. They want essays to be written and no questions to be asked in the first message. There needs to be some balance in the equation. All that to say, I never send one liners, and I expect the same of you.
My final point I want to make is, if not clear enough already from reading my main profile, is that I am not looking primarily to be used in a sexual service capacity. I find the whole sexual aspect of BDSM to be a bit boring. And even if you love that aspect of BDSM, within a well grounded relationship, sex isn't realistically going to happen every hour of every day (Some CS profiles...) . I find the idea of giving domestic service to a future Dom or couple, much, much more exciting. Would I be open to providing sexual service? Yes but if you are heavily into sexual scenes with a submissive, especially the rougher and kinker side of things, I'll probably be a disappointment. I may get better at that side of things with a slow build up of time, but how many doms want the month(s) long commitment to that?
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| Age: 45 |
| Oakland,
California |
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