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If you want me to reply, include a photo of your face in your message.. some men use internet photo's.. not their own, sometimes it's obvious- like a meme- sometimes it's not... so now I've found tineye.... a neat little program that recognizes photo's and tracks them down.. so- if you contact me, and you're not using your own photo, include a real one in your introduction... First off, if you just want kinky sex- don't bother to contact me. If I cannot meet you in person- don't bother unless you are my friend. If you get off on text messages about possible scenarios - don't bother. If on the other hand you are serious about servitude and are looking for someone to take you serious- then you can bother me. My preference is usually towards caucasian, nothing negative about other men, just what turns me on.
About me... I'm originally Dutch.. yes Amsterdam and all that.. open minded, otherwise I wouldn't be on here I guess.. tough with a feminine side and I like to be treated either as a lady or one of the boys... I ride, have a Harley and a BMW, love classic bikes and cars, and muscle cars... I love big boy toys and big boys as toys ;)
It might be easier to state what I don't like- I don't like rude and/or pushy people, don't demand things from me like photo's or video's- I'm not your personal porn site..
Right now I'm looking at LTR or the possibility of setting up a poly household... if you think you're the right person, contact me....
If you want to know more.. just ask.. though I'm offline every other week, so if you don't get a response straight away- it's not me being rude.. I'll be working..

INTP -Introverted iNtuitive Thinking Perceiving
8/27/2015 8:29:15 PM
Hmmm during my short time on CS there are a few observations I made;
1- When a Lebanese man says 'I love you' they mean 'I like you'. 
2- When a Lebanese man says "I adore you' they mean 'I love you'. (true story).
3- When a Kiwi man says 'I'm committed', they mean - until you run out of dirty messages.
4- American men only look at appearances, and want a D/s like in the porn movies. 
5- No man wants to contribute, but all men want to be subjected to your toys and see you wear (expensive) Domme clothes ... to get them in the mood...
6- there are still men who do not 'manscape' ???! go stand in the corner..
7- on that subject, If you're a hairy man- don't shave your pubes, trim them with a beard trimmer, it looks much sexier.. trust me on this one..
8- there is such a thing as cock-nauseous... too many dick pic's on here.. not interested in those, females are interested in seeing your face.. though feel free to have a second photo of your torso ;)
9-some men are just as vein as women.. and use internet photo's.. sometimes it's obvious- like a meme- sometimes it's not... so now I've found tineye.... 
10- this one is funny- 'I would like to show you my dedication and reliability', followed by- [you can no longer reply to this message, this account has ceased to exist]. and it happens all the time.... 


more to come as I make more observations..
8/16/2015 10:38:11 PM
http://www.astrology.com/love/compatibility/scorpio-leo.html
8/13/2015 10:04:49 PM
you fall in love, and think it is mutual...
it's not- you're only there to enhance his own ego
you're a tool.
you start a relationship thinking you will both be so happy...
you're not- you're there as cum deposit
you're a tool.

so finally you think- it's enough and you go in search of happiness, you think you've found it. He's perfect, you fall in love, never felt so alive, grateful that you have this experience....
you're not- you've become another ego booster, carer, cum deposit.
you're still a tool. 
getting old and rusty, thrown in a corner, uncared for, no longer needed..

8/13/2015 5:18:16 AM
..... seems I was right after all..
7/28/2015 7:35:30 PM
Painfully reminded that even Dommes are not safe from heartache.. Brought to my knees by love- who would have thought that I would find what seems to be 'the one' on the other side of the world.. Not being able to meet, talk face to face, to touch... Explore.. Online is difficult.. And I'm not sure whether I like this 'new age' where you can find him.. But he is out of your reach..
7/18/2015 5:36:15 PM
... earlier I deleted my journal entry about finding my soulmate thinking I was wrong after all... just for a few hours- I had started doubting..  and I was wrong....  for deleting.. 
7/3/2015 1:50:18 AM
In this world of hateful and judgmental people I thought I finally found a 'community' where everybody was accepted... where people - by the very nature of their lifestyle- are accepting of 'oddities' and as such very honest...
little did I know that there seems to be a need to lie- which is strange because one would think that if you lie you don't get what you want, at least not more than once.. alas, lying seems to have become the sub/slave's way to get some satisfaction out of 'faked' play without committing to any one Domme... sad..
similarly I have found many sub/slaves condemning findom/money-pig... so if I understand correctly- your fetish of forced bi? or maid service is valid- but other people's fetish is not? again ... sad..
having said that- I accept every-bodies 'oddities' and will not condemn anyone for anything other than rudeness. or lies...   can't stand lies..
6/25/2015 1:24:55 AM
Tonight I played with a friend which makes for an entire different dynamic... and to be honest I really enjoyed myself busting his balls with my new boots (what's a lady without a pair of new boots?) and tying them up... it was a nice and relaxed evening... ;)
5/13/2015 7:43:31 PM
For now I had a good time on Collarspace and thank you to the wonderful people who have welcomed me. For now I will be offline for a week, but drop me a note and I will endeavor to reply. 
lovetrust
 
 Age: 26
 Pruneridge, California