Well as much as I hate describing myself, here I am. I'm 24 and I'm moving on from my first Master/sub relationship into the big wide world of singledom (single-Dom?) again.

I'm looking for relationship that has more to it than just D/s. D/s is lovely, very lovely, but I like a girl who is more than just a sub. A girl who can be my equal outside of a scene but in a scene... well she can struggle from time to time if she likes, I don't mind subduing a struggling, squirming subby occasionally! (actually my former sub loved to wrestle... we both enjoyed it very much, especially that moment where I had her and she could squirm all she wanted but not get free until she had to confess she was beaten. Nothing like feeling her relax in my arms and telling me I had her to do with as I wanted...)

Basically I'm looking for someone who is a friend and a lover first and foremost and a sub second. I want someone I can talk long into the night with, or sit silently with in utter comfort. Someone I can go places with and do things with. Someone I can love who will love me back. All of that and a subby too. I ask a lot, don't I? :)

I consider myself smart and well read, with (I am told) a vast internal referance library of useless information and a very twisted sense of humour. I'm open and honest, and when I make a friend I am fiercely loyal to them.

I may not be the most experienced Dom out there with only one former play partner but I'm told I have talent. I certainly like to think that's true.

One final though, something I came up with and was much appreciated by those who heard it:

There is only one thing in this world greater than that feeling when a girl offers me her body and her mind, her well being, her emotional security, her safety, her pain and her pleasure for me to do with as I will. The one thing greater than this is the feeling that comes after, when I know I made her glad she did.