Let’s get away from the word “Master”. That does not describe who an Alpha Male is. It’s a title, a name, a term of endearment. I want to talk about this lifestyle as a more realistic premise. An Alpha Male does not have to be born that way. So, many outside and internal issues can develop and man into an Alpha. Things that CANNOT make a man Alpha is pain, hate, arrogance, chauvinism, rudeness, these are all issues that will have serious consequences in the long run.

An Alpha Male can open doors for his girl, pull a chair away from the table, cook dinner, be kind and nurturing and so many other things. What his girl does understand is that her man is the direct boss, the one she quivers in front of. The one that makes her feel love but also torturous pain just by thinking that she may disappoint him. She knows that his bark is just as bad as his bite; however she knows that all of it and all of him is under control.

All this bondage, caging, whippings, wax, positions and whatever floats your boat are all party favors enjoyed by both parties. He and she both know that pain is for fun and also for lessons to be learned.

What is completely understood by both is that the Alpha Male stands tall in the relationship and she lives and breathes Him and his words. She smiles just because her man wants her to join him in a conversation. She crawls to his feet for acknowledgement. She finds the greatest pleasure in the simplest things. She crumbles inside knowing not that she disappointed him but she may have disappointed him. She has a strong sense of herself and knows that the center of her universe is him.