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I am many things in and out of this lifestyle, but first and always I am a person, not an object. I have been involved in BDSM off and on for the past 13 years, though have yet to find a Dom that I click with on the level that I seek. What is that level? Over time it changes and grows as I do, my needs and desires grow deeper with every encounter I have with people in the lifestyle as I continue to learn more and more. To me this is a never ending journey of knowledge and acceptance, an exploration of my true nature, and a way for me to express all that I am.
Who am I? That is a very good question that is both easy and hard to explain to most people. I suppose I could try to fit myself into known categories in order for those who read my profile to get just a little glimpse of me. I am, of course, a submissive, though I do have slave tendencies that come out with certain people. I am very much a kitten, obviously, it comes out in pretty much everything I do. I tend to mew and purr in response to some things, I am a lap thief, a champion snuggler, chase laser pointers, bat at things, you know, things that cats do. I am a bit of a little, though that is a side I am still exploring. I am, without a doubt, a masochist, though not an extreme one.
My personality can be seen as complex, but I swear I am easily amused. I am intelligent, strong willed, sarcastic to a point, very affectionate, loving, devoted to my friends and family, passionate, respectful, honest, and yes, at times, very silly.
Outside of the lifestyle I am a gamer girl, an avid reader of fantasy, a pretty darn good little cook/baker, passionate about music and writing, pretty crafty, enjoy helping others, traveling, camping, exploring new places, and meeting new people.
What am I looking for? That is another complex question that I can sum up in something I once told a Dom that didn't seem to understand what I see the lifestyle as. Sure, having a romantic Dom is nice and all, but if you cannot answer very basic questions and see that there is more to the dynamic than the idea of romance and sex then I am not the girl for you. I am a submissive that needs and craves mental as well as physical dominance. If you cannot capture my mind then I will not give you my body or heart. Mostly I am just looking for friends, Mentors, and teachers, those that have been around for quite some time that don't mind sharing their knowledge.
My limits are very basic and include the following: Scat, vomit, children, animals, extreme humiliation and degradation, cages, diapers, adult babies, permanent damage, lack of self control, lack of intelligence, the inability to laugh even in the middle of an intense situation should something funny happen.
You want to get to know me? Be prepared for a whole lot of questions. Please, no one over 55 years old. No offense, it is just my personal preference.
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