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**I have no interest in talking to anyone or being contacted. I am no longer using this site**
What is BDSM to ME?
I believe Kink in general should be carried out in a safe, sane, comfortable environment to both parties. A submissive should NEVER dread the approach of their Dom counterpart. They should NEVER geuinly fear whatever may happen to their physical and emotional well being. A Sub should never be beaten relentlessly without remorse. TRUST. Trust is key. It takes time to build a relationship of any short, this is no exception. The SUBMISSIVE is relinquishing their whole self to please their chosen Dom. A true Dom will understand that, respect that, and want to push themselves and their Sub, knowing when to stop. A sub will respect their Tops position and should want nothing more than to make that person happy. A Dom is responsible for their submissive. Punishing and pleasing them as much as themselves. If you dont agree with what I have typed then that is YOUR prerogative, not mine. Don't bother messaging me if you dont have the same or very similar views as me.
Who am I?
I am a strong willed individual. I tolerate ZERO nonsense and dont like being taken for granted. I am a good person. I am a smart educated woman. Offbeat sense of humor, sometimes dark. fairly "vanilla" in appearance. I adore animals. Art. Cooking. History. Mythology. Leather. I am sarcastic at times with a fiery temper, and have been known to be rather harsh when it is needed. I also am a very supportive friend, and affectionate partner and do whatever I can to help a friend in need. I believe balance is key. There is a time and place for goofing off and having fun, just as much as there is a time and place for letting my serious demeanor consume me.
Brunette, curvy build, long hair and glasses.
I am currently applying myself as a switch. I have Topped many times before, but I cant keep repressing my desires to submit. I still have a lot to learn. I truly enjoy being dominant, but I feel I need to experience the other side as well.
It takes the rite man to get me in a submissive state of mind. You shouldnt have to scream, you shouldnt have to beat me to my knees. Its all about presence. Nothing makes me weaker than a strong man who can sell the same aura with a smile.
When Topping I NEVER raise my voice, if you cant be stern in a calm voice you are wasting your energy on trying to appear intimidating. I desire to make my Dom as happy and pleased as possible.
I'm not looking for a "casual" whatever. I would like to meet someone loyal and respectful. I am a sincere person who is wanting the same in a partner. I'd like to get to know who you are. I'd like to hear about your likes and dislikes (Kinks and everything else!) In time I seek something along the lines of long term.
My Kinks..
Bondage(spreader bars, collaring, binding, ect.)
Heavy teasing
Corset training
Candle wax
Orgasm denial
Rough play
Sensory deprivation
.. a lot more but why give away everything at once?;p
Please message me if you wish to speak further. I am not going to give out any personal information such as e-mail or S/N over only one or two messages.
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