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Quietpunisher

I am not here to make friends. The way I am can be blunt at times. But you will either like and want me for who I am or you wont. That is completely up to you It's that simple. I am not here for cyber. I am not here for games I am not here to rescue some damsel in distress. I am not here for photo exchange. I AM here to find a female slave who believes in a Masters right to use strict, sometimes harsh, domestic discipline within a real life live in relationship. It would also be good if she was a masochist, as I can and do get a bit rough at times. And not only desires, but needs her owner to have the right to take complete control over every single thing about her. To me, this NOT a lifestyle choice. It is who I am. The one I seek will live her life where her man is her king and she his loving and obedient servant as part of who she is.
5/5/2014 8:31:26 AM
Many consider this s "lifestyle". I do not. I see it ad being true to who I am. Anyone who meets another and thinks "I can change them or myself into what I want" is fooling themselves. Yes, on the surface that can happen. But in the long term, we tend to revert to our true nature. That is why the woman I seek must be, in her mind, body and soul, someone who not only wants to live as a mans slave, but it also must be who she IS. Same way I can not be less then myself and my belief that the man is the absolute head of both the household AND the relationship.
5/5/2014 8:22:20 AM
I overheard a woman telling a man that she could almost guarantee that while he was at work, his wife had another in their bed. He said he trusted her enough so he KNEW that would not happen. She snarked off and said that she Knew how women were and that he was a fool to think he could trust her. Asked if she was married, she replied no. That she "had grown tired if his ass always complaining he could not trust me" and threw him out 8 years ago. Yep. Divorced and single. And complaining she could not find a good man. Gee. ..I wonder why...
5/2/2014 3:29:18 PM
I have had a few grow angry with me when I would not do a photo exchange with them after only a couple of message exchanges. Given that many are known to take what is sent to them,, not only here but on other social media sites, and blast them all over the Internet. . Gee..I guess it should be obvious why I dont photo share with strangers.
4/27/2014 2:20:45 PM
A question was asked about my handling of tits. I see them as things to alternately caress and destroy. Depending on the moment. So please, , do NOT come looking to me and expect your tits not to be treated harshly. While I like looking at nice firm tits, I like handling soft saggers. And yes, I WILL do what I can to destroy any nice firm ones in my care and turn them into battered saggers. Big, small, firm or already sagging,,, I WILL work to destroy them and re-mold them to my liking. So again,, if you place a value on your tits and do NOT want them ruined,, pass me by.
4/27/2014 4:26:04 AM
I've been getting questions like "would you consider" or "do you cyber" and also about bimbofacation. Let me be as clear as I can here. "Consider?" As long as it's in line with what I seek, yes. "Cyber". All of us here start out with each other with cyber. can't be avoided. HOWEVER, I will only engage in it as a way to get to know one well enough to see if I want to take things to a fave to face meet. No role play or games. "Bimbofacation". No. Any who actually read what I write understands that I do NOT think that a woman should be adorned with anything while alone with her owner. This includes makeup and all jewelry except for the following. Collar, wrist and ankle cuffs and any piercings her owner has approved of. Cloths, when permitted, will be simple. At no time, except in the cold of winter, or by permission that is seldom granted, is she ever to have anything on her feet except open strap or sandals. If you've read, this includes all and any forms if undergarments. Including socks or stockings. The ONLY exception might be if she had larger then double D's. Only then might she be permitted to wear a bra. But only by permission. And ONLY if it was needed for wearing to work. If you are reading this and are thinking of contacting me with an eye towards potentially being owned, know this. Unless you know, want, need and accept what is both here and in my profile,,,look elsewhere. I am not for everyone and don't want one who is simply wanting to give it the "old collage try", only to find out later that its too much for her.
4/23/2014 5:35:56 AM
This is late April. .I woke up in the truck this morning just east of Kingman Arizona and its 45 outside!! Had the heat turned off overnight. It was chilly in my bed this morning. Why mention that? It would have been nice to have a slave as a bunk warmer and a foot warmer this morning. Not to mention that she would have been the one crawling out from under the covers and freezing her tits off to start the engine and turn on the heat. As I lay here waiting for the heat, I am wondering,,, where is the girl I am seeking that will become my slave / property? ? She IS out there. Finding her is going to be the tricky part.
4/22/2014 6:12:47 AM
I know many to being considered a "doormat". But the way I look at it, if a slave truly wants to please her owner as required, then if the owner requires her use as a "doormat"the slave has two options. First; serve the owner as required to the best of her ability, with no complaints. Second; leave and find another. If a slave walks into the relationship knowing or suspecting she will be so used and then commits to the owner,, She has lost her right to complain. She knew what she is getting into.
4/21/2014 5:40:36 AM
My " ideal" slave... First, she would have more then two functioning brain cells. No barbie bimbos need apply. She would understand and accept that her ONLY mandatory duties and obligations would be to me as her owner. The only opinion that she would listen to and value is mine or another whom I might tell her to. Temperament? She would find contentment in doing things she knows I like her to do. Not in things SHE likes to do, unless they are either things I like as well or that I have ordered or given her permission to do. An example would be that she would find contentment in kneeling naked on a concrete floor, motionless, for hours, if it was something I ordered her to do. I never said I didn't expect her not to find it boring as heck, just that she would find contentment in doing so because she would know she was being obedient to my command and therefore bringing satisfaction to her owner. THAT is the sort of behavior I would expect from the " ideal" slave.
4/21/2014 4:50:18 AM
I know some, if not many or most, may see my demand that a slave who is mine must break all ties with everyone and everything she knows as a HUGE "red flag" I get that. But I state "WILLING TO", not must. But until she is settled in and well along in her training with me I would EXPECT her to so as not to have unwanted interference in the establishment of her place as property. I must caution here that unless a slave is of the belief that a slave's only place in a relationship with her Master is as his actual possession I have little or no interest in her. She must believe in her heart that her Master literary OWNS her just as he would if she was a car or animal.
4/21/2014 4:36:24 AM
Some might be wondering why I have a picture of a truck rather then of me as my profile picture. Simple. I want a slave who is interested in reaching out to me what her HOME will look like and be at first and quite possibly for at least a year or more. I don't want her to have to wonder about where she will live as my property.
4/20/2014 5:39:24 AM
Is it important for a slave to love her owner? Yes. Sadly, many women, both slave AND vanilla seem to be waiting for that "magical moment" when they "just know" they are in love. Don't work that way. At least not for 99% of us. To be in love takes WORK. It's something you have to put in both time and effort for. Love is like a plant. If you tend to it, give it what it needs, it grows and blossoms. Ignore it and it dies. Ever wonder at the seemingly pathetic girls you see who's boyfriends use them as a daily punching bag and the reason they almost always profess their love for him? They, in some way, understand that to remain in love with him, they need to both WANT to and be willing to work on being in love. No hypocrisy here on my part. Yes, I do spank, slap, cane and flog. But I do not advocate that women be used as punching bags in the manor that the so called men mentioned above do. Do I believe a man has the right to occasionally beat his woman? Yes. But not to do so to take out his inadequacies on her.
4/20/2014 4:56:19 AM
For the life of me, I have NEVER been able to understand the obsession a lot of women have with clothes. Yes, there are times when cloths are necessary, such as in public or when its cold. My ideal attire for a slave in public, considering laws of society? A simple mid length skirt, plain blouse or T shirt, and simple unadorned rope sandals. Nothing else. Bras, panties and all other forms of undergarments should never be worn by a slave, nor should they be permitted to be in her possession. But when at home or otherwise alone with her man and or owner I have never understood why most women feel they need to be clothed at all. In an ideal world, no woman would ever even think about wearing clothes when she is in the presence of her man.
4/20/2014 4:13:41 AM
I often have wondered why many refer to women as "cunts". Then it dawned on me. Just like that part of the female anatomy, a good woman who maintains herself well, both physically and emotionally (I am talking about health, not weight. Although that too can play a role) is of benefit and not hindrance to her owner. Such a woman can be soft, sweet, warm and give her owner much pleasure. But just like the same part of her anatomy when she neglects it and lets it go foul,, a bad one can give her owner no end of trouble and often something he doesn't want, let alone need. So, that being said...women..if you KNOW you are doing everything you to be sweet, obedient and respectful to your man ,, why take offense when he calls you cunt? The way I see it, calling a woman "cunt" when she is good is reminding her that she is being sweet, warm and a pleasure to be around. It ALSO serves as a reminder to the good woman that if she turns foul, she is NOT worth having around unless she cleans up her act. And women who KNOW they are not doing all they can to bring him pleasure or are giving him nothing but trouble, , again...why take offense? You both have EARNED being called that. If you are a good girl, being called cunt is both a term of endearment as well as a caution not to become a bitch. If you ARE doing everything wrong and bringing your owner grief, quite complaining about being called a cunt as an insult when just like when that part of you goes bad..it stinks up the whole place. Clean up your act if you are one of these last types! !
4/19/2014 8:49:58 PM
A few years ago while at an airport in the Florida panhandle I saw a young woman of about 25 or so waiting at baggage claim. Nothing out of the ordinary until I noticed she was wearing a dark red and grey mid length dress with a mid cut back. Nothing out of the ordinary so far , until she turned and I saw her back. There were a number of bruises from healing welts crossing her back as well as a few that had turned to scars. Whip marks. Most turned away when they saw that. A couple of boys about her age tried to talk with her but she ignored them. They had no clue what that collar around her neck meant. After getting her bags she simply stood there until a man that could only have been her owner walked in and got her. The whole time I saw her there she neither looked at or spoke to anyone until he showed up. Even then all she did was give him a shy smile as she walked out a full two steps behind him. What impressed me most was that she chose not to wear something that would have covered the whip marks and scars while in public even though she most likely was under orders to wear what she did. She was obviously not ashamed of others seeing the marks. Her owner had a good slave there. Whats that got to do with anything? Not a damn thing. Just thought I would share that with folks here.
2/3/2014 5:40:38 AM
To me, the sign of a good slave is one who will greatfuly accept anything from her Owner,even if it is punishment to torture. Even abuse. Why do I say this? It is a slaves place to be sure that she is doing everything she can to pease her Owner. Even if it means greatfuly, even eagerly, accepting from her Owner what some might consider unplesent.
11/12/2012 10:54:16 AM
Those timid slaves who are in serch of a Master, please understand then when you communicate with one of us, that is NOT the time to be the ultra shy little rabit afraid of its own shadow. We can not talk with you if you turn and run away when we ask a question. Shy and timid is the nature of some of you,,we all know that. But we can not talk with you if you can not find a way around at least some of your nature long enough to talk with us. This stage of contact is a two way street,,,We DO want to hear from you, we DO want to talk with you,,,,
8/6/2012 12:14:14 PM
Some say I am too "nice" to be a real Master. No, I just don't see the point of being rude just to be rude. I AM seeking a slave, but NOT if I have to go begging for her attention. I am who I am, take it or leave it. It is not the duty of a Master to conform to what a slave thinks he should be or wants him to be. If a slave is unwilling to accept that and is unwilling to be the one to change as needed, I am better off without her. It I that simple. Take me as I am or don't waste my time.
4/15/2012 10:51:40 AM
What is it that makes one a slave? You can read all the physiology mumbo jumbo about it and learn only one thing,,that there IS no one thing that makes a slave a slave. Some are products of their envioment when they were growing up,,otheres had it beaten into them at some point or another. And still others simply have it in their make up. Whatever the reason, I am greatful they exist. However, as I said eariler, OWNING one is not as simple as some think, They tend to be VERY needy of your time and attention. Such attention can vary from slave to slave. Some are content simply to be in your presance, while others need to be whipped, flogged, tortured or outright beaten to feel they are acceptable to their Owner. A hardcore pain slave probably will not feel as loved and cared for if it is simply held close and assured that it is as when she is crying or screaming in agony from torture inflicted on it by its owner. Treat a slave addicted to pain or abuse with loving kindness and chances are you will loose her.
4/15/2012 4:10:24 AM
Some outside, and even a few INSIDE this life fail to understand ceryian things about a slave. Namely, tthat if you do not have the time ( at least at first) to spend properly TRAINING it, you will get poor results. A poorly trained slave is not at fault for being so, it's the OWNER who is to blame. You would not bring a DOG (trained or a green puppy) into your home and expect it to know everything you want it to do without TRAINING it, would you? Same should go for a slave. Holds true if you have a trained or green slave. As long as it is new to you, it to needs proper training.
4/12/2012 9:32:00 AM
I've been asked from time to time if I feel it is ok for a Master to beat his property. Even to the point that it can not stand on its own. To this, my answer is simple. YES. As long as they are both in agreement that such treatment is ok within their relationship. Such an agreement MUST be reached BEFORE the relationship get to that point. If a slave objects to such beatings, she has several choices,,one, understand she is a SLAVE with no rights and learn to accept it. Two: Convince her Owner not to, or Three: Seek her release. This may sound cold hearted, but remember at the heart of the issue, property has NO rights at all.
3/3/2012 5:46:29 AM
Mybe its just me getting older, I can recall a time years ago when I would have enjoyed using a sub or slave I just met and had almost zero interest in, except for her body. I met with a very compliant subbie a few weeks ago,,quiet, respectful, willing to let me use her in almost anyway I wanted. All three of her holes were open for me to use,, Nice soft tits to slap, bind, nice ass to spank,,, But I felt nothing for her,,no interest,,, I guess I am getting older,,I find myself needing a slave whom I am drawn to on an emotional level as well as physical. Don't get me wrong,,I still require one that is obediant, loyal, open for anything,, Its just that I find myself interested in her mind as well these days.
12/31/2011 10:25:51 PM
Mindight,,new years eve,,fireworks just shot the grand finales,,,, Makes me wonder how many female slaves and sluts started their new years with a huge non- stop gangbang,,, Be interesting to find out,,,,,
12/31/2011 9:58:31 AM
The word "no" is an interesting one. So short, so simple, yet when misused, it can have such disastrous implications within a relationship. In todays "liberated" world, that simple little word is promoted as the symbol of a womans rights and independence. While I agree that in daily life, it proper use can be of huge benefit to women in some sitiations. HOWEVER, when that same woman is in a relationship with her Mate, my feelings are that it should be like it was not so long ago when a woman would not even THINK of saying "no" to a request from her Man. I believe that a woman, once she is slave to her Master, must learn to erase the word "no" from her vocabulary whenever responding to a request or order from her Master.
12/28/2011 7:19:29 AM
I was just thinking that, as crude as it might sound to some, a relationship between a Master and His property is, in some ways, like a Man and His dog. Follow me here,,both dog and slave wear a collar (at least they SHOULD wear one of some sort). Both are PROPERTY of their owners. Both are tied up or caged from time to time. Depending on the Owner, both may be mounted by others for their pleasure or for breeding. Both receive obedience training. Both receive punishment for not behaving. Both get let out for walks. Both share their Masters bed only by His grace. So women, next time your Man calls you His bitch, consider this,,. Don't they call a dog Mans best friend??
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 Age: 20
 Flushing, New York