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Who, What, When, Where and How Bear with with me as I create and edit my profile. Also, the photo is obviously not me but represents what I seek. It is freeware. And in my opinion it is beautiful. Who am I ? I am a man of simple desires. I am a man in transition. I am a man getting close to retiring early. I am a man who craves peace and quiet and a simple life away from the noise and clutter of cities. I grew up with rotary phones and 3-4 channels on the television and I could easily return to that time. Don't get me wrong - obviously without the internet I would not be able to do this. And I am no technophobe. I've worked for AOL. But I can leave a lot of it behind when the time comes. I am in good shape. I have all my own teeth, all my own hair - although it is sprinkled with a few grey hairs to be sure. I am height and weight proportional. I exercise regularly. I do not have and have never had a "six-pack," instead I have "love handles." But I am not at all fat, not even close. I have excellent hygiene. I eat well, and prefer real food over processed junk. I enjoy wine and alcohol in moderation. Truthfully I'm a bit of wine snob, preferring anything imported to domestic stock, and reds to whites. I like jazz, classic rock (I grew up in the 70's, what else ?), and new age ambiance music. Helps me relax and Think. I'm not a yoga guru, I don't sit and contemplate my navel, but I do enjoy nature and being outside. Despite my user name I don't particularly care for country music. I love the water, on it, in it or near it, fresh or salt. I build things, I grow things, I do things. I am fairly normal and reasonably sane. I've never been arrested. I have been in the military although it was some time ago. I do not use drugs and prefer not to be around them. I'm not college educated but I'm very well informed and articulate. I am a gentleman with a black belt in tae kwon do. I'm strict but caring, firm but understanding. I have good sense of humor but I do tend to be sarcastic. I'm a very private person. I won't be putting my life story on here. I won't be posting pictures of myself on here but I will gladly share them with the right people at the right time. Let's work on the trust issue first. I seriously doubt anyone I know would be on here but that's not the whole point. I'm using this site to try to find something that we all know is difficult to find. But I am very serious and very real. What do I want ? First of all, I don't like one size fits all labels. i know some people can fit within one category but I'm not sure if the kind of woman I want could. I'm old fashioned. I want a submissive girl but I want her to be sassy sometimes. I want a woman who will be a servant but not a slave. One who wants discipline but does not live for pain. I Am old enough to be one but I am not a DaddyDom however. I don't care to see a grown woman acting like an infant or even a teen. And I'm sorry to have to go here, but I'm just an old school blue collar white guy, and I just don't think I can date outside my race. I don't want to hurt anybody or offend someone but that's just how it is. I like what Jeff Foxworthy says - Give me a beer and a naked woman and I'm a happy man. I appreciate a woman who is comfortable being nude. A woman in a garter and heels is absolutely beautiful to me. Lingerie and lipstick. One who enjoys being looked at. You don't have to be a stripper, but knowing how to entertain is important. I like short hair, or hair worn up, as I like a bare neck and shoulders. I am am not a sadist, and I don't want a masochist. I do believe in spanking and I enjoy giving one, both for discipline and fun. When it's for discipline I usually take you to tears, and when it's for fun I'll take you almost ! Lol. Seriously though, you should like it and want it for the same reason. But I'm not going cane someone or cause real physical harm. If that's what you want we are not a match. I like bondage. Ropes, restraints, gags, collars and leashes. I like the idea of pet play but I'm not going to have you eating out of a dog dish. Think more along the lines of being on your hands and knees by my side as I stroke your head and body. I'm not into verbal abuse or real humiliation. I enjoy role play and love a woman who is creative and intelligent and can play her part well. I think you can get the idea from what I've written so far. Age is nothing but a number to me, but I prefer you to be at least a few years younger than me. Late 30's to late 40's I think. I'm trying to be realistic here. I certainly don't expect nubile little 20 year olds to throw themselves at my feet. But I won't rule out anyone based on age. And speaking of age consider mine as well. You must want an older man and understand that I am not a 20 year old. There will be no all day sex marathons. At my age I prefer quality to quantity. Just trying to be real. I'm not a porn star. A real D/s relationship is not based solely on sex anyway. Or at least mine aren't. I'd prefer you to to be shorter than I am and you need to weigh less than I do. I'm 5'8" and 165. I'd like someone under 5'6" and less than 140. Let me amend that to say that I won't rule out someone 5'10" and slender. But everyone has their preferences and these are mine. I believe that is reasonable. I want someone that takes care of themselves. Who wants to eat well and be physical. I can help you meet goals if you want but I don't care to take on a project, if you get my meaning. You should like the outdoors. You should like the water. You should be a quiet girl. I love a yes sir and I like a woman who uses it naturally. I realize it takes time to get to that point. All this takes time. I don't expect you to drop everything and rush off at my first email. More on that later. I'd love to find a woman who can cook real food. And as I said earlier you should have a servant heart. One who derives her satisfaction from serving her man. If you need malls and lots of people around and have to watch television every day and night you will be very bored around me. Have a hobby ! As you can see, I have no specific woman I am looking for, just some general parameters. They are not set in stone ! I should add that I've had D/s relationships in the past. I do have experience. But I don't have one now and it's been a while. Truthfully I've given up on the idea of finding "the one." But perhaps I can find one who makes life less lonely, at least for a while. Please feel free to try and make me a believer again ! When. Time will tell. This is will be an issue. I am laser focused on retiring. That is my main goal. Realistically I'm looking at five years, but it could be three or it might be as much as seven. Until that point my time is limited. Some may ask what am I doing here now ? We all know this is a hard and difficult journey at times. It may take years to find a compatible companion with the same interests. Hence I have decided to get started. Maybe 2017 will be the year ! Until I get to retirement my free time is limited. I have obligations. I have responsibilities. I will not be distracted from my goals. But - I travel. I have time off. I take breaks. Maybe just a day. Maybe a weekend. Maybe a week. As I get closer my free time will get longer as I delegate to others. So my opportunities to meet people will grow as time goes by. And perhaps there will be a few false starts. But this is how it goes for all of us. I hope to introduce myself to a few people on here and establish trust enough to meet. At the very least such contacts can help us both. I'm not big on "munches and meets" (hard to find time mostly) so I don't have people who can vouch for me. Meeting someone on here can help accomplish that. Where. Not in a box, but maybe with a fox. As I said I like to travel when I have the time. Have time will travel ! And being the private person I am, I have my own very nice, late model travel trailer. It's no piece of junk. All my own stuff. All my little comforts of home. Sure you have people around some of the time at camping resorts but most are cool and no one intrudes. It's very laid back. It's usually quiet and peaceful. Just what I like. So. If I can make a connection with someone here, and if we can establish that necessary level of trust and get to the point where we want to actually meet, I can see myself making the time to go camping somewhere near that person. My range of area would be say mid-Florida up to southern Georgia. Perhaps further if the other person can travel a little bit too. Initial contact to be in a public place of course. I wouldn't expect you to do something foolish. All plans subject to change as needed depending on circumstances of course. How. How in the world do we make it happen. This is not easy. From what I've seen on here there are plenty of fakes and scammers. Hundreds of guys that sound like me. Lots of fake female profiles. And as far as I can tell this is the best site on the internet. I hope you can tell from my profile that I am real and that I am serious. The only path I see is exchanging messages with you here, and then progressing to emails and then phone calls. As I've said I'm a private person. I plan to move slowly and cautiously. Truthfully the the one thing I dislike about all social media is the way you can't look at the other person or hear their voice. I need to look in your eyes and watch your face and listen to your voice. Only then can you even start to get to know someone. So actually meeting someone in the real world is my goal. I don't want an online relationship. So, if I send you a message and/or you read my profile, know that I'm not here just to play. Yes I would love to find some play partners. While I prefer longer term relationships I am open to the occasional "fun weekend" too. You have to start somewhere ! But I'll still have to get to know you first. Let us begin !