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QuietButInCharge

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I am a successful man looking for a woman interested in a 1950s style household at minimum. Someone interested in punishment and bondage would be a plus. I can be sadistic but I believe punishment is just that. For example, if you like to be spanked, I will do so but not as punishment. I will find something you don't enjoy for that. 20+ years of experience but have been without a sub for a little while now. I enjoy caring for new girls looking to experiment slowly. I enjoy training younger women. I do not generally have sex with those i train. If i offer, and you accept, a collar, then the relationship may become sexual. I respect limits. Period. If you have limits i don't think i can work within, i will politely decline to play. I don't test limits unless that is agreed upon beforehand. I practice safe, sane and with full consent. If you ever become mine and wear my collar, we will have a more in depth conversation of consent. I will write more here later. Just something to get started with. If i add you to my favorites, it is for one of the following reasons: 1. Something about you caught my attention. I will likely write you after a day or two. I don't message in haste. I like to put some thought into it. 2. You have an attractive picture in your profile. I may want to return and review your profile once it has more substance. 3. I think i know you outside of CM (yes it has happened) Regardless, feel free to message me if you have interest or simply find the idea of me revolting. I will remove you if you request it.

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6/11/2012 10:33:52 AM

I was asked by a sub today if i have been successful on collarme. I guess that depends on expectations and desires.

 

I don't really expect to meet someone here. Too many fakes and i am not going to put the effort in to sort them out.

 

If a real sub/slave is interested in me, i am open and willing to chat. I am not going to demand proof right away. I think it is unfortunate that this site has evolved the way it has.

 

I think there are real subs out there who would grow under someone like me.  I am not going to chase them away because of those who arent.

 

The saying "throw out the baby with the bathwater" comes to mind....

 

Anyways, i am successful here in that i have met a few people i dont mind chatting with. On a social site, what more could one ask for?


5/26/2012 11:27:29 AM

had a long discussion with a supposed dominant here.....

 

women do not like to be degraded because they feel they are worthless.

 

they want to know that despite the fact they are willing to be used in very primal ways, that their Master still values them and cherishes them.

 

 


3/25/2012 11:01:07 AM

If you have self esteem issues, i am not the Dominant for you.

 

I am willing to help build a girl's view of herself but not if she feels she is worthless. If your truly worthless, why would i want you?


1/4/2012 12:52:44 PM

“I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don’t mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh, God, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don’t mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling, be all that I am capable of doing, but I am going to be pursued, fucked, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding.”
― Anaïs Nin


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Beulah112
 
 Age: 18
  Minnesota