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| Once upon a time there was a kind and wonderful man...
I am not him. I am human and recognize that I have faults. I just prefer to think of my faults as features. Granted most of those features are not the kind you would order with a new car, rather the ones you have to put up with to get the things you really want and need.
Might as well get the deal breakers out there right away so lets go for the big ones first.
I am a single parent of two terrific boys. I will never put my needs or desired before theirs. Sorry, that's just how it is. On the bright side; there is room for one more.
I am NOT a lifestyle Master. As mystical as that sounds, the thought of someone actually having another person locked away under their bed 24/7 forever is just creepy to me. Granted I've never actually locked a woman under my bed for more than a few months at a time so I am basing the 'forever' thing on the fact that it did bother me a little after a few weeks.
So, why am I here if I am not into the lifestyle? Well, I want more than to merely subsist day to day with someone. I have the crazy desire to be with someone that we both care for the other so much that a mere vanilla relationship would never satisfy our need for the other. Someone that we both can escape the inescapable rigors of daily life with, all be it temporarily at best. Be real, we all have responsibilities that HAVE to be dealt with, no getting around it. Thinking you can flee the world permanently under my bed is ludicrous. For heavens sake, where would I keep the wrapping paper if you lived under there ? You can't just think of yourself. You have to consider what I want to do to you too.
Sorry, I digress. Seriously though; I imagine maybe 70% vanilla and 30% Ds/Kink, yes, I said kink, that is what it is and calling it anything else is just trying to justify it to yourself. Please understand that kink is not necessarily sex related. It can be so much more, but the sex stuff is the most fun. Come on now, you have to admit it would be great to have someone desire you so much that they want to do kinky things with you, bear in mind they want to because they LOVE you, not because they LOATH you. To trust another enough to be rendered defenseless at their hand and then depend on them to protect you, that is a life bond. If you can trust them for that, you can surely trust them to pick up some eggs on the way home. Reminds me, I forgot to get eggs today.
This is the part where I can just start making things up because nobody ever actually reads this far into a profile. Anything really. I could just copy a few pages out of the dictionary and you might think it was a story about EVERYTHING and all the sentences just happen to be in alphabetical order. Gee, I wonder what order the words are in a Japanese dictionary ?
Oh, almost forgot that I still have to explain what I want now that I've glossed over my shortcomings.
A sense of humor, though that is negotiable. Seriously though; I am more a butt guy. Ok, a sense of humor and a butt. The rest is negotiable. Oh, and someone that is not claustrophobic. I hate the banging on the underside of my bed all night.
I guess I really should be more serious but I don't have time right now, it will have to wait.
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Is it just me or has this site been down more that up?
Days at a time down. |
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Once again, CS's mail system has shut down on me.
Is it just me or is everybody having problems more and more lately?
Now it is not just the mail but even connecting to the site.
503 errors, ssq login errors. Milk is expired errors.
It is like the website has turned Master and we are all its slaves.
Returning again and again so it can ignore and abuse us.
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All but given up on the mail system here, then out of the blue I am ‘allowed’ to open and reply to one whole message!
Just my luck it was someone that has a requirement I cannot not satisfy, nor would I ask them to ignore.
I know the message problem lies with my computer but unfortunately it is caused by settings required to be as they are. No, I'm not wearing a tin foil hat… never after Labor day at least… has to do with job stuff. Long story that requires puppets to explain properly… and sadly, I am not allowed to play with puppets anymore… is a condition of my probation.
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It's only S&M if both parties enjoy it... otherwise it's just called being an asshole. |
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Wow, I managed to OPEN ONE message... but still no luck replying.
Hope you don't think me rude for not replying, seems my tablet hates me... or possibly it loves me and has become jealous?
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After a rocky start to the year, finally things are looking up. Think it is time to work on fixing the problems with my profile; namely the inability to read or reply to any messages. Sorry, not trying to be rude, just beyond my control. As fun as teasing can be, seeing people I find interesting write to me and not being able to interact with them is torture. Thanks to those that have tried to write to me and I apologize for leaving you hanging. Sucks for me too. |
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At times this site can be such a tease. I see I have messages but rarely will they open and lately I cannot reply at all to the ones that will allow me to open them. Don't you just love the iPad and how it wants to force the rest of the world to bend to it? Bet it secretly calls itself 'Master'. |
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First, let me apologize if I don’t respond as quickly as I should. Life has me a little busy right now and I can only get online with my tablet most times. To be honest, trying to reply with the tablet is painful… in a bad way. |
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Sorry to start with a rant, just a pet peeve of mine
Favorites; To anyone offended by me adding you to my favorites without contacting you first;
Get over it. I use this feature to temporarily bookmark profiles that catch my INTEREST and warrant a second (or more) look when I have extra time. I like to come back and READ a person’s profile and journal fully before any contact with them. Seems like a good idea to me. A properly composed and thought out message is not only POLITE, but shows I took the time to learn what YOU WANT.
I also like to follow some of the journals here that are from people beyond my skills. I use the favorites feature to do this. I love to read and learn from them. A fresh idea or emotional insight is always appreciated here. I find no need to take your time asking for a personal letter repeating what you already said in your journal. Unless of course I have a question that is important enough to bother you.
Marking you means I enjoyed some aspect of your profile… it is a complement.
To the people that state in their profiles; “I will block anyone that adds me to their favorites without contacting me first”…
I hope you enjoy all the one liners and missed opportunities. When I see this in a profile, I click the block box first. Ok, maybe not a great loss for them, but makes me feel better.
Friends requests; This is a request to be FRIENDS. This does not only suggest some kind of contact first, but some kind of positive interaction too. Please understand the difference. Wait at least a few letters before sending out a request. As flattering as it is to me, I would prefer to actually have you as a real friend and not just a notch on your ‘friends’ count.
I will try my best to honor any written message sent to me with a reply. As I state elsewhere in my profile; I have no set ideals as to physical appearance, age or race. I like people that are interesting to interact with. Who can possibly know if two people will mesh together. Maybe not at first, but after some time conversing. |
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| Age: 19 |
| Ontario,
Canada |
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