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“Our lives improve only when we take chances --and the first and most difficult risk we can take is to be honest with ourselves." --Walter Anderson

It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not. -- Andre Gide

I, Queen Sodomy - voluptuous, African American, sensual with sadistic interests, loving yet cruel at times - am accepting applications from submissives and slaves. I'm a lifestyle Domina who most enjoys the psychological aspects of BDSM as opposed to the casual play most seek for sexual release only. I'm a Woman who pursues a passion filled life & grand lifestyle interwoven with decadence, kink, perversion and love; not white picket fences with children & PTA meetings. If you passed Me on the street or sat across from Me in a board meeting, you would not suspect I'm the keeper of many kinky fantasies and experiences. you would only notice I am confident, strong and attractive with a powerful yet unassuming personality. I am a Lady with class and presence. Only if you get the opportunity to look really close will you notice the devilish twinkle in My eyes. You will be used for My pleasure which will include but not be limited to, on-going anal training, cbt, bondage, domestic duties and disciplinary action when required (how else will you learn how to properly please Me). I'm very selective and only want someone who is as well. I welcome conversation, friendship and networking with other Dominant/submissive Women and select Dominant Men (as a peer, not to serve). However, nothing about cyber nor phone play/training interests Me.

Do not send a blind invitation to chat without a note or message...I will decline the invitation. Remember, as I said, nothing about cyber interests Me.
Serving Me is what this relationship will be about; both publically and behind closed doors. When in public it will appear W/we are equals (unless it is a bdsm lifestyle gathering) but appearances can be deceiving, can't they? My ideal: you crave to serve a Woman who is strong/Dominant, kinky, perverted, strict yet warm and caring/nurturing; a Queen who will love you more for your gift of submission. you wouldn't consider posting a cock picture on your profile page. you are cultured and refined. A class act. Never described as average nor accepting the status quo -- definitely top-notch and often a force to be reckoned with when left to your own devices. you're confident about your abilities (not to be confused with arrogant, as arrogance W/we both know stems from deeply rooted insecurities and the inability to deal with them effectively), self-assured and not easily intimidated yet cognizant of your weaknesses. Wimps and doormats with feeble minds, low self-esteem, or a false sense of pride bore Me and I will not be bothered. you are passionate about life and all it's possibilities. I have to be able to laugh and hold an intelligent conversation (and silly ones too) with you and yes, even ask you for your opinion and advice at times. This is in addition to Me using, tormenting, disciplining you for My pleasure, and training you to crave it more. The physical features that top My list are well-endowed, tall, dark hair, masculine, in-shape, sexy/intense/passionate eyes, and very kissable lips. Race is not an issue, as I typically date outside My race and have an affinity for European or well traveled men with European sensibilities. Have I described you? Yes? then by all means darling, send a respectful introduction that you have crafted specifically for Me (not the canned response you send to all Dominas) and lets see where this journey takes U/us. **Take note boys** A Queen does not settle for being or accepting second best. With that being said, the idea of considering someone married or attached is a joke. Do not waste My time with pleas to be the exception. It will not happen. Winking and/or adding Me to your hotlist will not solicit a response from Me. "The person who says it cannot be done should not interrupt the person doing it." --Chinese Proverb
1/30/2012 9:15:24 PM

I'll be attending Dark Odyssey: Winter Fire 2012 in February. If you are attending as well, please let me know. It is always better to meet someone face-to-face. 

7/15/2006 5:35:18 AM
Thanks for all the birthday wishes and yes, it was lovely.
2/11/2006 1:50:39 PM
Married, attached, sissy men or those with children (of any age) need not apply.
10/18/2005 5:03:10 PM
If you send a random request to chat, it WILL be declined.

If you send a one word/sentence message, I will not respond.
lilpainpuppy
 
 Age: 21
 Toronto, Canada