Couldn't have said it better myself:
"Okay, I'm not a fin domme, but I'll tell you what I do do. I happen to like playing with someone I'm in a relationship with, either that or strictly kinky play & no actual sex with a close friend. Now, when some random dude comes along & wants me to scratch his itch for him with no relationship or getting to know each other time, I will consider(not necessarily do each time) playing with him for a "reasonable donation." Then I will turn around and give half of his "donation" to a very worthy cause in the local kink community....support for a new social/dungeon area we're getting going in my home town. Like I say, if some random dude just wants a fetish-delivery system, he will need to fork over some $$." -NiceButMeanGirl |