HOW CAN YOU BE A GOREAN FEMALE DOMINANT??? That goes against the very philosophy of the lifestyle. 

I am beginning to feel no one will ever be serious on this site, too many confused posers and fakes. 

HAHAHAHAH Ok just read the profile of yet another Domme looking for a sugardaddy sub. This bitch wants her cake and eat it too, and it shows on her fat face. Really? Do you not know the difference between slave-sub-cuckold? Well at least you were honest when you said you were new to the lifestyle. So how many times did you read "50 Shades of Grey" before you decided this was the lifestyle for you? Has anyone noticed the influx of new Domme/Doms after that accursed book was released?

AAAAWWW gotta love the fakes. They come in all sizes, shapes, genders and genre. Just encountered the heinous "switch" who made trouble for me a year ago. She is using a  very old pic of herself hiding her true size and looks. I have to ask why? There is no shortage of BBW lovers on here. I am a BBW and I am not ashamed of my looks. So why hide your true appearance? If you were serious they will find out you are a liar eventually. Why start out on a deception? You don't have to show your face, but you are showing an old picture of your face and not your body. What have you got to hide? Oh that's right you don't want your kids, your friends or your ex to find out. At least that is the claim. But if they are surfing these sites they either already know about you or they do it too. So once again you are being a little disengenuous. And in case others of you are wondering if I am doing this to harass her, no I have blocked her so she can no longer harass me like she did previously via phone, email and friends. And you will note I never mentioned her name.

HAPPY NEW YEARS TO YOU

ONE AND ALL 

NEW YEARS KISSES

AT MIDNIGHT ALL AROUND

Been having a lovely time with my children and grandchildren this holiday season. Eating, sledding, napping and watching movies together. If I don't chat it is because I just have enough time to quickly check email and sign off again. 

I hope that I find a sub/slave that understands the worth of my family and that above all else they come first.

OH and if one more of you asks if this journal is about you, just consider it does, so tired of defending and explaining myself. Just because it vaguely mirrors your behavior does not mean I am calling you out. The one it is about knows it is about them without a doubt.

I must have been a good girl this year because Santa (the ultimate Dom) brought me my best present ever and right on time, my oldest son daughter in law and my two beautiful granddaughters showed up yesterday to surprise us all the way from California :) Best Present ever!

WOW only 6:49 am and already received one ridiculous message, what's the matter Santa take a crap in your stocking?

Such an interesting holiday, what I thought would be a promising sub turns out to be just another play actor, But then he was quickly replaced by someone more eager with less issues, I guess some subs are not exceptionally computer literate and don't realize you can see what time they have been looking at your profile, not sure if he is a stalker or just trying to get me to bite at his silly bait,

By the way for a great read pick up Santa Steps Out by Robert Devereaux, You will then understand what I mean about Santa being the ultimate Dom.

On the twelfth day of Christmas my Mistress gave to me; twelve lashes with a flogger

eleven flavored condoms

ten minutes in a corner

nine inches of silicone

eight nipple clamps

seven strapons forcefully

sixtynine all weekend

FIVE COCK RINGS

a four poster bed

a threesome with a cuckold

two benwa balls 

and a blow job from a bottom

I have been chatting with some very lovely pets and to be honest I think I have reached my capacity at this time. Those of you who are close to me and chat with me daily know who you are and better not go anywhere :)

But any new requests please understand I can't help everyone.

Please only seeking seriously interested parties within the confines of Colorado. At this time I am not taking in 24/7 live in slaves/subs. I am Looking for that person who wants to meet a few times a month discretely for starters then if we really hit it off we can discuss the possibility of combining households. 

I have found too many alleged subs/slaves that are really just out of work homeless people looking for a Sugar Mama. Even if you reassure me you have an online job. I am not in a position for the next 2 years to take anyone into my home. Ask me in private and I will explain.

I am feeling mischievous today. I feel like saying things I normally would not and doing things I have never. We should all try our boundaries from time to time. How else can we truly know ourselves?

Side note: I love it when you don't like what I say so you try to bow out gracefully and expect me to beg you to come back,  but I don't. Yeah I love it when you hover waiting for it to happen. Keep waiting for it...... It isn't going to happen.

What a unique 24 hours this has been!

 Last night I had a phone session with a sub that was so gratifying I was even amazed. I so look forward to the day we can meet and consummate our friendship. I want to thank them in this not so discrete manner for being everything I am looking for and then some. 

 And then there are subs like another local who doesn't have the sense given a goose to stay away under threat of restraining order after he and his band of subs with bitter hearts attacked me and slandered me out of jealousy. I did nothing wrong other than trust a greedy sub when he said he had no Mistress. But in fact he not only had one she was one of the most bitter, most lazy, selfish and hateful people I have ever had the misfortune of meeting. And this sub thinks he has done nothing wrong in exposing me to derision and slander by being silly and greedy because his Mistress didn't have time for him. 

 So my point is, if you have subbed for someone in the past be certain there are no ties before you move on and expose another unsuspecting Domme/Dom to attacks they did not deserve. And this Domme is not adverse to calling in law enforcement.

 However, again I am thrilled at the unlikely pairing I was fortunate enough to find in my own community. I generally am not fond of phone sessions, but this one just makes me eager for the future personal visits.

Dear potential pets,

I see I have raised the hackles on a few of you due to my reluctance to do as you wish. I would love to talk to ALL of you on the phone running up MY phone bill because you are clear across the US. I have absolutely nothing to do all day every day but do exactly as you wish when you wish. I just love it when you tear into me losing all semblance of servitude because I innocently say something that sets your dear little heart aflutter. 

There now that I have squeezed the last bit of sarcasm out of me I will get to the heart of this. 

 I am one Domme. If you are having repeated issues with Dom/Dommes perhaps it is time you looked within yourself and realized the problem could be you. Try to remember you are not the only person on here clamoring for my attention. 

 Yes I will train you "better" to suit My needs not yours. So don't delude yourself to think that you are perfectly trained. And I rest my case when you switch into "automatic drama"  mode when I suggest you need better training so you quit topping from the bottom.

Sincerely 

 M

OK I currently read a profile of a proclaimed Dom who said they have been in the lifestyle for seven years, and then I see they are only 23 years old. LARGE RED FLAG Either they are a liar, a scammer or a liar. That would make you 16 when you began and I don't for one second believe you were truly aware of the lifestyle and it's responsibilities at such a young age. That is probably when you discovered your peepee is now a penis and you can stick it in things.

I have truly been a Domme since 2002, exploring since 1996, and a Dominant personality since age 12. So does that mean I have been an active and talented Domme for 34 years? Absolutely not.

I am shocked at the number of Dom/Dommes and subs who require a form of payment and blatantly ask for such on their profiles. How is this tolerated? That is a form of prostitution and is illegal. At no time should anyone be required to pay to meet another individual in a lifestyle of choice. These subs are willing to give so much already, if a  person is asking for monetary or material gain these are not people to be trusted. As it says on our home pages when we first sign in 'DO NOT GIVE MONEY TO ANYONE ON THIS SITE"

As you run across these scammers I advise you to report them, especially since they are also the first to publicly humiliate those that see them for what they are.