Being powerful is like being a lady...
if you have to tell people you are,
you aren't. -- Margaret Thatcher


I am a smart, playful BBW submissive. Everything on my body is soft and round and for the most part, my personality is as soft and pliable as my body... devoid of sharp edges and angles. I'm warm, affectionate and usually sweet-natured. As a writer, words matter to me and I know myself to be a woman of substance... I'd choose one evening of real conversation about things that matter over a lifetime of inane chitchat.

My ideal match is intelligent and witty, dominant without being domineering. He knows how to evoke control with a single word or the raising of an eyebrow. He knows who he is and what he wants... and is unwilling to accept anything less.

I am cautiously re-entering the BDSM world after a painful failed relationship, followed by a self-imposed exile to get my head back together. I guess I'm hoping to find a Dominant who knows how to balance a firm hand with some much-needed tenderness....

I dream of Someone who truly listens, is willing to give clear guidelines and expectations, and will be patient with me as I learn. I'm nervous and a little gun-shy, but also a very quick study and an eager student with the right teacher.