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"Dominance is the ability to create a hunger in you that's so strong you will do anything, anytime, anywhere just to please me."

8/10/2005 4:17:48 PM

Words are a most powerful tool, an expression, a means
of communicating, a transfer of thoughts, emotions,
ideas, problems and solutions. They can be mechanical
pleasantries or deeply heartfelt needs and desires.
They can be spoken, written or even bought or barrowed
from another.

A true Master listens attentively to all the words of
his slave, be them spoken, written, or otherwise
expressed as in body language, facial expression etc.
and deciphers the importance and strength of her needs
and desires. He can hear, see and feel the love behind
them. He is intelligent and comfortable enough with
himself and his role to act on them if he believes
them to be valid. Loving and caring enough to know
when his slaves cries need his attention.

Action speaks louder than words-

My Master's actions have spoken volumns to me. They
have not gone un noticed. They have sent a clear
message. He loves me, he wants what is best for US and
he will take care of us. I have so much respect and
love for this man it is without hesitation and with a
great deal of pride that I call him Master.

I love my Master - thank you for allowing me to do
that. Thank you for wanting me to love you so much,
guiding me to the state of happiness I yearned for.
Thank you for your patience, your insightfulness and
your strength.

I LOVE MY MASTER - I look forward to many years of
serving and pleasing him as he trains me to be all
that I can for him.

6/13/2005 10:38:50 AM
It's an amazing feeling to know you belong to another
person. This feeling does not come from wearing a
collar; however, having a collar does produce a great
deal of pride and a constant physical reminder to
yourself and the world. The feeling I am talking about
is a constant one that sits on a high level and is
still able to rise to greater heights when you see
that person, hear his voice, physically feel him, or
even hear another speak of him. That feeling rises
when he says the right words as you express your woes.
He calms you when life gets too harsh, smiles when you
find it hard to smile yourself. He believes in you.

When you are blind he is your eyes.  When you are beat
he is your energy. You know he will take care of you
at all costs and his vision for your future is focused
and loving.

You are at the center of his soul.



It's an amazing feeling to know another belongs to
you. You are all that to him as well as his slave.
Serving him in all areas of his life.  Any dream,
fantasy, want, need, desire, or curiosity he might
have you want to fulfill and satisfy for him. It is a
driving force.

You believe in HIM.



We continuously grow together.



He is my Master.
5/31/2005 6:02:53 AM
With an open mind and a open heart my Master draws me closer with every passing day. He hears my thoughts, my cries, my wants and my desires in and out of the dungeon. My respect and admiration for him is huge. His responsibility for my well being and our happiness is given the highest priority.
Thank you Master!
Our lives are melding. We are a part of each other. He is Master, I am slave, we move forward to become one.
5/18/2005 5:24:14 AM
 
With each day that passes I find myself feeling a greater sense of excitement for life. Very little bothers me, smiling and laughter are frequent. My sexual drive although always quite healthy has soared and my priorities have shifted.  Time seems to fly when I am with Master there is never enough, like an addition.  The more time I spend with Master the happier I am.      A lost spirit emerging with zest.  An open heart being filled.
 
Master has managed to enhance all of my best qualities, attributes and positive energy. Without thought, I feed off him. His excitement sets off my own, his passion and desire create my passion and desire. My biggest turn on is feeling his pleasure and pride in me. My mindset when I am with him is different from our first days together. Partly through his training, partly from my deep emotional want and need to please him. I take his heavy hand, be it equipped with a toy or bare with much less fuss. His use of me sometimes harsh or continuous is easier knowing my reward is HIM. I actually find the throbbing aftermath a rewarding part of having served him. The more he uses me the greater the lingering feeling that reminds me of his presence even when we are physically apart. Master is deliberate about making sure the intensity of his eyes are burned into me each and every time we are together.  I can feel him looking inside me, watching closely, studying each minute reaction, and movement, taking mental notes, learning me well beyond the level I know myself. He is always thinking of new horizons for us to get to and I always waiting with great anticipation to be taken by him. Where, when or how is his choice, he is my Master in every sense of the word.  I am grateful that he has chosen me to be his.
5/14/2005 1:48:15 PM


Submissives Creed

Author Unknown

1. I will communicate with complete honesty my needs, desires, limits, and experience. I realize that failing to do so will not only prevent my Master and I from having the best experience possible, but can also lead to physical and emotional harm.

2. I will not try to manipulate my Master. I will not push to make a scene go the way I feel it should. In other words, I will not top from the bottom. It will just cause harm to all.

3. I will keep an open mind about trying things that I am not comfortable with and expanding my limits. I will continue to grow as a submissive and as a human being.

4. I will accept the responsibility of discovering what pleases my Master, and will do my best to fulfill his wishes and desires.

5. I will not allow myself to be harmed or abused. I know that submissive dose not equal doormat.

6. I will be courteous and helpful to my fellow submissives. I will share my knowledge and experience with others in the hope that they will learn and benefit from where I have been. I will take the time to help those new to the scene start out on the correct path.

7. I will be responsive to my Master. I will not try to hide what my mind and body are feeling so that I may assist him in his responsibilities as my authority. I know that Dominants are not telepaths, and will not expect my Master to know thoughts or feelings which I do not share.

8. I will accept in the responsibility of a scene or relationship gone bad. I will not place total blame on my Master when it is not warranted simply because he is the Dominant. I realize that things may not work out as they should at times, and will do my best to put it behind me and move on.

9. I will give my gift of submission only to those that can responsibly accept and desire to receive. I will not place anyone in the position of topping me non-consensually, nor will I give my respect to someone that has not earned it.

10. I know that M/s is not a contest, and will never think myself a "better" submissive because I choose to submit on a different level than another. I will not be boastful but I will be greatfull and proud of the experiences I have had as a slave.

11. I will be obedient to my Master even if I disagree with what he is requesting. I realize he has my best interests at heart and often knows better than I in what I need in a particular situation.

12. I know that my actions reflect upon my Master, and will do my best to help others see him in a positive way. I will not intentionally embarrass or displease my Master.

 

13. Above all, I will wear my title of slave with honor. I will never cause others to think that being a slave means to be weak or sub-human. I will take pride in whom and what I am and will never show myself in a negative way.

 

And for all of the above is the reason WHY!

 

Love,

Master!

5/11/2005 9:44:36 AM
I sought only to be taught.
     My mind was stimulated, made to think and rethink that which I knew and that which I felt. I drew on experiences, common sense, and readings. I was told, but didn't quite believe, that I was already being taught. Without realizing it my mind was expanding.  I found myself eagerly wanting more "food for thought"and explanations. My mind began wondering and wondering at a rapid pace!
     Next began the taking of my body, so I thought. My thresholds not near that of many. Time was taken to teach me, a concept I hadn't brought to full light. Of course everyone takes time to learn another, but this was very different. I was being "learned" from beyond where I knew myself, from the inside out. My body was transforming from the thought and feel of taking the pain to accepting it, wanting it, actually getting excited by it. A sense of pride in knowing I was taking it, but it went even beyond that. At times I felt I had literally no limit to what I could endure, my mind in a completely different place than I had ever been.  Within a short period of time I found myself in subspace so deep I barely remembered what transpired. He walked me through each step that lead me there. I was shocked that with each word I found myself saying "Yes I remember that" and "oh Yes that too!" I have always thought of myself as an intelligent woman and found this quite bazaar that I would not have recalled the details. I was taken back, frustrated, and uneasy that I hadn't. He assured me in time I would learn. Indeed he was right. As time past I learned to "feel" Master while I'm in subspace. Craving his nearness, his breath, hearing his voice between the pain, giving reason and cause to want him to take more from me. No thought to the physical reaction that continually heightens as he orchestrates my explosion, only to let it barely subside and bring me to another and another until I can no longer hold my own weight. That place is OUR place. (Subspace) He is there with me in his own way. He sits and watches, holds me, kisses me and waits for my return. 
     Next he encapsulated my heart, putting me before himself, listening to my heart speak. Teaching me that a true Master not only teaches his slave but learns from her as well on all levels of life.  I am extremely grateful for his kindness, openness, honesty and desire, and admitance that even a Master can learn and grow. A sign of the an extremely intelligent and confident man. One to be admired as few have such a quality.
     
       A common word         -     APPRECIATION     -
                   a) to recognize or understand that something is valuable or important 
                   b) used when you are thanking someone or showing that you are grateful
                   c) showing that you understand how good something is, 
 
             tremendous meaning and strength creating a bond of admiration and love  
 
My appreciation of one man brings the word Master to my lips without thought or hesitation.
 
I love that our journey continually grows and 'our place' changing.... 
     
Thank you Master for appreciating me for who I am, yours!
    
5/9/2005 5:57:52 PM

Old Guard, New Guard High Leather Protocol: what does it all mean? It sometimes sounds as if Sadomasochism was invented in Post War America. Noted author Jack Rinella (The Master's Manual) speaks of there being a confluence of three "rivers" of Lifestyle. Historically, Jack notes, the Pro Dom is the oldest branch, Gay Leather, is the second "river", and Heterosexual BDSM or D/s, is the third leg of this convergence. Old Guard generally refers to the gay leather Post W.W.II model, of the last century as you will read. The structure of” Discipline, Duty Honor Obedience Integrity and other values carried form a military indoctrination, became common threads for many a secret society in the 1950s.

Today, the rise in hetero sexual kink, has many self appointed "Masters" cooking up their own brand of service, protocol and behavior. Submissives who have been inspired by The Beauty Series or The Story of "O" come looking for Master Good Bar. Role players who have read the John Norman Gor books, come in with that as a model for finding a Master/ slave world of their own. Some people, who have stumbled onto a dark corner of chat, begin their "education" on the Internet, sorting and sifting through chat rooms and channels and the characters that haunt those less than hallowed halls. Others find web sites such as this one, or may have read a non- fiction book or two.

So this Old Guard stuff doesn't seem to quite match the fantasy role. It is easy to dismiss Protocol and Discipline as an old "gay" thing that has no place in the new millennium... until you look carefully at it. Submissives want structure. In fact they crave it. The truth is most relationships that fail do so, not just because people change as they grow in this, but because core values of Honor, Integrity, Obedience, Duty, and Respect, that were binding requirements of 20th century Leather Life, seem now to be optional elements in the Het community.

There is no one answer. Each couple or clan must find their own way and define themselves and even redefine themselves as they grow. But it would be a good idea to understand the past and the current underground, and take those elements you feel will work and apply them to your needs and desires. I am from the heterosexual side of the track. Yet those who train with me..are far better trained then I in the ways of the Leather folk that came before me. It is my "Duty" to insure they do. They expect me to help them learn. Because of that I am as comfortable walking into a Gay Leather bar with my submissives as I am a pansexual munch.

Enjoy this collection of essays on Old Guard and High Protocol. Chances are if you have asked me to teach you, I have sent you to this page to learn. You don't need to adopt all you see here, But you do need to understand it and respect it as one facet of our overall community. There is a lot of value here if you keep an open your mind. Or NOT?

Thank you.

 

5/7/2005 1:33:14 PM
Today is the beginning of the rest of our lives. If you want to know who we are as individuals then feel free and read our individual profiles because they are what brought us together. Me: journeydesire
 Him: MasterMYSIRMIND 
Together: Where you are NOW! lol

Freinds and playmates always welcome!

Master handles all those who are not welcome.

Thank you!

PS If you email me at my personal handle here Master will be responding to you.

Again, Thank you.