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| hi! well I guess I should describe myself a little bit huh? I've been a long time "lurker" on collarme/collarchat, as well as a few other fetish/bdsm sites, but I've never really been an active participant in the community. I decided it's time to change that. I am both shy and outgoing. Strange right? Well....I am really shy at first when getting to know people, but once I do I become a really bubbly outgoing friendly person.
I identify with submission and I'm also bisexual. I would be happy to serve a man or a woman. I am currently in a very committed vanilla relationship, and I'm struggling to get him more involved in this type of lifestyle, but I hope with getting more actively involved the community and building some strong friendships, I can help him work through some of his preconceived notions and fears. With that stated, I'm not looking for anything beyond friendship and mentoring. I am not interested in a sexual relationship, and online relationship or anything in between. I'm strictly looking for friends in the community. Any attempts to contact me for anything other than that will be met with an immediate block.
So in my vanilla life, I adore the color pink to an extreme, I absolutely love piercings(Some in some vanilla locations some in some not) and tattoos. I love to read and write. I do a bit of design from time to time. I sometimes watch tv and occasionally watch movies, but for the most part I'm not really on the up and up of what's current. I do tend to record a silly amount of cooking shows and love to cook especially cupcakes. I do absolutely adore music however, and could never be in a situation where I couldn't listen to music. I love sewing and often make my own clothes. I'm not very physically active but I sure would love to meet people who are and maybe do things with them. Rock climbing (of the indoor variety, heights! YIKES!) seems like a pretty cool activity, and I used to love roller blading, but these days it's been difficult and my confidence to do it has dropped dramatically. If I could be a lifetime student, I totally would. Currently I'm taking a break from my degree due to finances, but as soon as I'm able to I'll be back in school eager to learn more.
As far as my kinky side, I won't go in to terribly to much detail because as I said, I'm not looking for a dom/domme but it's always nice to know if someone has similar interests. I do like pain play, but not particularly into humiliation play. I enjoy bondage, and orgasm control. I love anal sex, but I loathe water sports. In the non sexual side of my kink likes, I prefer a lot of control, but not over everything, I have my little quirks. I want to choose what clothes I buy, but the clothes I wear on any given day can be chosen for me. I am not willing to cut my hair, but I'm flexible on hairstyles. I enjoy having day to day aspects controlled such as what time I get up or go to sleep, how I'm to spend my day, what type of chores or tasks I'm to complete for the day, etc. I hate the "bathroom control" type of dominance. I find it degrading, and that's not what I'm about. I know there are plenty of people who enjoy that, and more power to them, it's just not my thing. Schooling will always come before anything, I could never compatible with a Dom/me that wanted me to neglect my schooling for their personal pleasure. My likes and dislikes are much more detailed than this in regards to bdsm but this is a nice starting point for those interested in learning more about me.
And if that's not enough information for you, or you want to get to know me more, drop me a line!
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