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My name is purrrfectkitten and that is exactly what i am.i am petite shapley and lovable. i search for a loving master/mistress whose lap i can sit on and be cuddled. Only one thing though. i cannot bring myself to call someone master or mistress because kittens have their own minds.

Update: I have had a number of Doms and Dom wannabe's send me notes. My journal is an example of what I have to put up with. Where did all the decent people go?
11/14/2008 9:06:45 PM
This is a correspondence that I have had in the past week with a so called Dom. Please read it in it’s entirety and comment for me. I welcome comments from both Doms and subs


My profile:
My name is purrrfectkitten and that is exactly what i am.i am petite shapley and lovable. i search for a loving master/mistress whoes lap i can sit on and be cuddled. Only one thing though. i cannot bring myself to call someone master or mistress because kittens have their own minds.


Viraqua’s first note to me:

"i cannot bring myself to call someone master or mistress because kittens have their own minds.", Well, right there, you just killed the fantasy of a nekogirl XD. Watch more hentai.


My response:

It figures a guy like you would send me a message the way you did. "I'm a little overweight, get over it, there's an obesity problem in the US and I see people on here ALOT worse than me." demonstrates someone with insecurity issues and an inability to own up to his own problems and step up and take responsibility. Doesn't sound to much like a Dominant to me. Sounds like a pouting little boy.

His response:

Actually it's a very valid response to most of the profiles I see around here from females that don't look past a love handle, and the fact that I admitted it on my own fucking profile would say I have no insecurities about it or I would have hid the fact that I'm a little overweight you idiot. Hell I listed my weight right on my damn profile, more than other girls do. Go troll somewhere else, my email was not an insult, it was a joke. Obviously you didn't get it. And you don't sound like any submissive I've ever talked to. You sound like a wannabe who showed her true colors when she got mad. Obviously you're the one who needs to see a shrink.


My response:

WOW!! You DO pout. Actually I am a shrink, I have a degree in clinical psychology. I am also a CFI recently hired by a regional airline as a first officer. How about you? Most likely never finished college and have a nice blue collar job requiring what.... minimal knuckle scrapping while walking?



His response:

It took you half a day to come up with that (yeah, I saw when you read the email), or did you sulk that I hurt your feelings for 6 hours? Your sexist remarks are unfitting of your "profession". Where'd you graduate The University of Bob's Quick Degrees? And you got a job at what airline? Conair? Cause you don't sound like any shrink I would recommend to anyone. Insulting, a superiority complex, quick to anger, inability to differentiate joking from a real insult. You're a horrible shrink. Oh and actually I do have a job....oh wait slash that, CAREER, a nice little degree in Automotive Technology through the University of Minnesota and starting on my nice profitable journey through life. So here's an idea a real shrink would think of that I, seemingly, have to tell you. Why don't you get off your high horse and look at the first message I sent you. Was I joking (Oh, just for the books, XD is a smiley with it's eyes crossed if you don't know)? Did it warrant your response? Why? It's called hindsight, you don't seem to have any.

My response:

Still hung up on weight issues. Get a life....Oh that's right, you have one as a grease monkey.

His response:

*** The sender unsent this message


You brought it up so owe up to it.......and at least when I get done with a patient, it works well XD. And what the fuck? I make a nice long speech and that's all you can come up with. Gee I guess your grasp on the human psyche is not all you puffed it up to be.


My response:

I brought it up? You were the one who mentioned your weight in your profile. It was certainly on your mind before I ever mentioned it. It wouldn't be on your mind if you were not either 1.) concerned about it, or 2.) embarrassed about it. Your nice long speech struck me more as drivel from some weakened mind trying to impress himself.I guess you succeeded. You must be very impressed!

His response:

And I stated I don't care about it. I am arguing the fact that you think I'm "insecure" about it ding dong, as you so blatantly stated in your first email, or did you forget that fast? And I know exactly what you're doing with the argument. You're concentrating on parts that you can still fight and trying to bury the ones you've lost. You think this is the first time I've gone shit throwing with a person like you? You throw shit very well. I haven't had this much fun in months XD. C'mon, I EAGERLY await your next one so I can gun it down.

My response:

You ARE insecure about it or you wouldn't have been compelled to put it in your profile ding dong. And you think I am concentrating on parts that I can still fight and trying to bury the ones I've lost? Quite the contrary Einstein. In that statement you are admitting that I haven't lost. You are a classic example of the little big man syndrome, like so many of the wanna be Doms on this site. Go back to head butting the other grease monkeys in the pit, swearing and puffing out your chest. It is what makes you macho after all isn't it?

His response:

Oh yes ding dong, it's always insecure to admit something. I swear to god, your just throwing words at my statements anymore. And now that I caught on to your game, you've changed tactics to try to throw me off, like big words...cause how the fuck could I have little big man syndrom?! I'm 6'3 ya retard! Do you even know what that syndrome is??? Here's a hint, Napolean, IF you know who he is. And the only fake that has been obviously present in this conversation is the so called "submissive" that has been puffing out her own chest. And for being a "grease monkey", it sure is funny when a person like you tries to act like she knows more than she does. Oh, and there is no pit ding ding, you're thinking of an quick lube. And the only headbutting to ever go on is where your head, meets my butt. See ya next time =D


My response:


Well well. A very predictable response from you. When I started this correspondence with you after your first rude comments I had decided, after reading your profile, to see how insecure and sophomoric you really were. I wanted to know if I could put you on the defensive and to see how long you would stay there. You became defensive immediately and have not budged. As I'm sure you're aware, or at least you should be aware, a Dominant is a leader, often called an Alpha Male. Someone who can keep his emotions under control and is an enviable example to those around him. A Dominant does not let others control Him or His responses. You fail here miserably. You are not a Dominant. Your responses have been boorish and immature. You have a lot of growing up to do to become a man and even more to become a Dominant man. I seriously doubt you have been able to figure this out on your own and I am sure when you read this you'll go right back into your school boy defensive posturing and pretend it's not true. Unfortunately both you and I know better. I have tired of you and your pretend fantasy of who and what you are. Ciao

He sent me a note and I deleted it without reading it. He apparently got pissed that I would delete his note and predictably had to try and get the last word. So He had Gentex1 a 23yo sub from Road Island send me this.


My friend said to send this to you *^_^*. I don't like getting into fights but I guess since I'm not really getting into it. Sorry.

My my. She's run outta insults so she pouts and runs away. And just when we were having so much fun little girl. Though your actions were predictable, once a woman knows she can't win a fight, she comes up with some big whopper and walks away. You're definition of dominance is laughable as well. Obviously you don't know what S&M is. I am not a leader, leaders are inspiring, admirable, and sacrifice themselves above all others. You want that, go find a dog kitty cat. I am a lone wolf with a sadistic streak a mile wide, the guy you'd see walking down a dark alley and run away from. I don't dominate, I break. You're little bouts of insults have given me pleasure just knowing how much anger you must have typed into that keyboard. You must have saw signs ( if you're a shrink XD). And you're behind the times, you want school boy deffensive posturing...go look at 4chan and you'll see what it is. Oh as for pretend fantasy.....
This comming from a girl who states that she's a submissive. A girl who misread a joke and took the offensive right away. Who's supposed to be cuddling up in some guy's lap, who's supposed to be passive and meek. Maybe you caught rabies somewhere cause as soon as I read that part that I replied about in my first email, I knew you were faking it. You fail as a submissive, you fail as a "shrink", you fail as everything you've "acted" to be.

But then it's the internet, funny how people can act so differently than they do in real life on here. Emails give you time to think about your next move, real arguments don't and I've seen how long it takes you to come up with comebacks, I bet I could push you over with one finger in real life cause I know for damn sure I can argue circles around you (isn't the man supposed to get tired of arguing first? ROFL!!).

But since you seem to have exhausted of this transaction, I have no more use for you. Like a slave that has been broken, I guess there's nothing else to do but throw you away (No more fun if it stops screaming XD).

Adieu

MASTER Viraqua

My response:


Wow, I really got under his skin. Cool

He had her send another which I deleted without reading. At this point he’s probably stewing in his own frustration and anger. I get very tired of all the men out there who play at trying to be Dominant and come off as such narcissistic Neanderthals. 
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