Fetishes

• ROPE!!!-dying rope, practicing with rope, tying people in rope, being tied in rope, looking at people tied with rope. And no, I'm not about all natural, super fancy, blah blah blah. If its soft, sturdy, and holds a knot I'm happy. If its soft, sturdy, holds a knot, and can be dyed with Rit, I'm in love
• SUSPENSION- I love doing suspensions. But I'll be honest in saying I'm still learning so I have some limitations. I can't suspend men-its not in my skill set yet. You bodies are different and so suspension harnesses are different. I also can't suspend anyone who weighs over 300Lbs-this has to do with limitations on my equipment.
• SENSATION PLAY-feathers, hairbrushes, clothespins, chains, mini floggers, vampire gloves and my favorite-ice. Pain is not the only form of torture ;)
• MIND FUCKING-candle wax and ice, blindfolds, predicament bondage-yes I will tie your nipples to your toes then take a feather to your feet, orgasm denial
• FIRE PLAY-I'm still learning but I love both giving and receiving :)
• SAstyle is risky enough without making it worse. EMT shears, first aid kits, NOT playing under the influence of alcohol or drugs-and yes that goes for both doms and subs.
• CLASS-and no I'm not talking about something you need to be born into or how much money you have or how pretty you look. I am talking about knowing not to text on a first date, or any date for that matter. Helping an old woman lift rock salt into her car. Being capable of stringing 10 sentences together without using a curse word.
• INTELLIGENCE- please....just don't be stupid....

Soft Limits

• BOTTOMING-I do bottom but very occasionally. And only with people I really trust....If you're reading this to learn about me don't bother asking me to bottom-you DON'T know me well enough...In fact don't ask me to bottom at all...if I want to bottom I'll ask you
• PENISES-If you are a man and we are going to play, cover up mister happy. I will not touch him and I do not want to see him
• FIRE CUPPING- it makes me queasy but im hoping to get over that

Hard Limits

• BOTTOMING FOR PAIN- I do NOT get off on pain. For me it is just painful and unpleasant. Do not cause me pain.
• WATERSPORTS and SCAT-I can't get past the sanitary issues
• NEEDLES AND BLOODPLAY- they make me queasy, and I have no interest
• ASSUMPTIONS- don't assume I'm straight, or stupid, or a sub based on how I look. And yes I am a one handed female rope top. If you question the fact that this is possible you are consenting to a full suspension using the noose tie
• STUPIDITY
• INTERRUPTIONS -for me tying someone up is NOT setup for a scene. For me it is the HEART of the scene and sends me into amazing top space. If you are talking to me when I'm tying someone up you're consenting to pinata play with you as the pinata.