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| I have this amazing drive to do the best that I can do in life and to live it by the golden rule. That leaves room to be rotten to the people who need it, but not ruthless and cruel.
Eventually, I will want a relationship, but shouldn't it begin with a friendship? Are you really into game playing and the whole one night stand kinda thing? I'm not! I want to get to know someone and let him get to know all the good and bad about me before jumping into that boat.
I'm pretty bold and have a strong spirit. I do what I say I'm gonna do and I don't waste time with it. I am determined, happy, and one of the strongest, but sweetest women you'll ever meet.
I'm smart and sassy and one of a kind. I've got a great sense of humor and I love making people laugh!
I enjoy being with my friends on occasion, writing poetry, traveling, family things, cooking, and cleaning. I like getting out and can be very social. I also have things I need to work on...I get fixated with work, I need to lose more weight, I am pretty stubborn at times, and I carry a lot of stress on my shoulders when I should delegate more.
My future partner will be more of a Dom without being an asshole. He will be loving and considerate and be completely vanilla around my family and friends, including my kids. He will realize that his title with me doesn't make him my boss. He earns that with me just like he earns my trust.
He will challenge me and think it's completely sexy that I love the challenge. He will love the touch of my hand in his and the feel of my head on his chest. Maybe it's a dream, I don't know..but here's what I do know: when a sub woman gives you her love and devotes her time to doing things for you, you shouldn't take advantage of that because it is her character And a piece of her soul she is giving you. It's a gift- one of the greatest you'll receive.
You're just a person like she is. There are many parts to both of you and many components of your lives. You have to find what works just like every other couple in the world, vanilla or not. Dominance does not make you God. I believe it is simply part of a unique dynamic that helps create a very special relationship.
I'm obviously curious about this lifestyle. I'm not interested in play or anything like that. I like the idea of dating and getting to know each other :). It feels natural and normal to me. Being tied up naked by some weird guy is something I watched on a horror flick and guess what- the guy didn't win the girl :). Get to know me :).
My pic is upside down- I don't know why- it's an iPhone pic- odd
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