OK I will admit it, I knew a little bit about this lifestyle and then I read the book, yea that book, and became even more interested. So I began to do my research and found this site. I am seeking a man who will ease me into the life. I want to start small and build up. I am up to listening to all ideas and as of right now I can only think of a few major no's. So hit me up and we will talk :)